Got accepted...not too sure if I actually want to attend

<p>So I’m from Northern Virginia near DC and I applied to Auburn because it was a bigger school and had a lot of other things I was looking for in a school. I got accepted and if I were to attend I would need to get some sort of scholarship that I would need to apply for, because it’s out of state. However, the more I think about it the more I’m not sure if applying for the scholarship is really worth it since it’s probably not one of my top choices.</p>

<p>I’m kind of worried about it being in the deep south which may be kind of a culture shock. I’m not too sure about the whole “southern belle” way of life. Also, I’ve heard sororities are a major part of the school, which I don’t really want to be a part of. I feel like if you’re not in a sorority at a school like that, then you’re kind of left out. Any one know a bit more about the way of life at the school or any comments on things I’ve said? Anything would be great, thanks!</p>

<p>It’s not a Southern Belle school (that’s UA not AU) - and lots of folks don’t join fraternities or soroities. There are many out of state students and there are all kinds of clubs to belong to. It is a very, very friendly school and not as conservative as they like to promote. College kids in general are more open minded and accepting than their parents (hippie parents that went right!). However, you really need to hear from the kids going to the school and this thread isn’t that active…good luck with whatever choice you make.</p>

<p>Auburn is a friendly school. Greek is very prevalent freshman year - approximately 35% of the girls rush. However, the percentage for guys is much lower. After freshman year Greek seems much less a big deal. I have a student who decided not to rush and is very happy - he just did not enjoy the fraternity vibe. He has great friends and most are not Greek. The key is to get involved right away. Attend club meetings for anything that might interest you and you will find your niche. My son is an Out of state student who chose Auburn over many others and he has absolutely no regrets.</p>

<p>I attended Auburn (it’s been awhile). There were many students from Virginia and there are quite a few of us alumni living in Virginia. I was in a sorority, but if I had to do it over I probably would not have joined one, as most of my social life didn’t depend on being in the sorority. That’s what is great about larger schools. As a female, you’ll be able to get into most frat parties without any sorority affiliation if you are interested in that type of socializing. </p>

<p>Be careful not to stereotype an entire student body of 22,000+, Auburn is a wonderful school with awesome school spirit and all sorts of different people. Sure there are some “southern belles” and they may become your very best friends if you give them a chance. I suggest you head for a visit before you make a final decision.</p>