<p>um can you tell me what “baller” means? i am new. </p>
<p>so you went to an art high school and you have tats and piercings. and you are looking for an “elite” school where you will fit in better and is less homogeneous??? </p>
<p>ha, um not really gona happen, not even at columbia, ur just too smart. no wait i actually read that yale has more tattood artsy safe sex practacing students than any other uni in the whole country. but seriously thats just college, at least a good college, its a bunch of whites and asians with a few others, blacks and intl students thrown in for pezaz. </p>
<p>i cant comment on everyone at every school but it seems pretty consistant that from a distance most people can meet a couple friends they will have till the day they die and a few hundred aquintances that you will start losing touch with at an exponential rate starting the day of graduation or the day the class ends even. if you cant meet a couple close friends than you are not looking hard enough or just having a bit of bad luck. it sucks but it happens. </p>
<p>One more thing that is totally not in place to mention and may not even be the case, but I will say it anyway. 1. good for you for using condoms, not enough kids do it. 2. dont let lonliness lead to hooking up with the wrong guys for the wrong reasons. This may make you feel worse and you deserve more respect than that. but this is college so if its out of horniness and attraction and not lonliness please get ur **** on, twice even. (PM me for details :)) not my place but i said it, just in case</p>
<p>Are you getting out into DC enough??? I know fresh/soph years its stuff, especially with classes and not knowing anyone. </p>
<p>Look you cant transfer until next year anyway right??? so try to make the most of your soph year by any means necessary. you said u r an english major and have like 45 minors right? I wont be easy but why dont you spend your entire junior year abroad. Like in london or germany??? it will change your life. You will meet people. This will bring you back for only senior year where by kids are older, more mature and you will just have one year left. I know its not the perfect solution to your situation, but I thought I would mention it. BUT do not drop out, I did, it was dumb. Just keep getting good grades and hating the world a bit on the inside and you will meet people eventually. </p>
<p>Do you have an off campus job??? These are hard to get right now and I know its a lot of work. but even if it is a 10 hours a week, less even, you may be able to find work at a place that has your type of crowd more than Gtown, like a hip clothing store, record store, bar/restaurant?? </p>
<p>I think campus clubs are a joke for making friends but the job thing may work for you and then you will meet people outside of school and then you can tell all the hoyas in pearls to go **** themselves?</p>