Guys, I think I lost a friend.

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Hey how does everyone here feel when they loose a friend who thinks the friend was actually going to be your friend for a long time?</p>

<p>I met this guy over the Summer and then we were friends on facebook and we started chatting with each other through instant messenger. After getting to meet him once this school year and we have 3 friends who we know are in the group and that I talk to him whenever me and him were bored, he just blocked me on facebook and AIM. Now, I'm thinking that he's not friends with me anymore and he doesn't like me.</p>

<p>Does anyone else feel this way? Should I forget about him and find a new person?</p>

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<p>Well, this has never happened to me, but it seems like you don’t really KNOW this person. I mean, you talk a lot, but you have only met him once, and you don’t actually hang out with each other. So maybe he just wants to cut ties with you because y’all’s relationship is sort of weird and unconventional. </p>

<p>It may be a strange and somewhat rude way to end a relationship with someone, but don’t take it personally. Obviously this isn’t like your best friend.</p>

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<p>^ Yeah, but I have three other friends who are in touch with him, but I think two of them don’t really hang-out too much with him.</p>

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<p>That’s what people do when they don’t want to be seen with someone.</p>

<p>He’s way to concerned about what people think about him if he did this (I assume). Don’t associate yourself with people like that.</p>

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<p>Exactly. Maybe you can ask one of them to ask him why he blocked you? Or you can just ask them to ask him if y’all still talk, so it’s not as much of a direct question about his blocking you, but he can then go into more detail.</p>

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<p>Sometimes he thought I was a bit annoying, but then he LOLs at me for inaccurate stuff about colleges.</p>

<p>I tried instant messaging him again before and he was not responding to me. He didn’t give me a reason why he quit. Plus, he sounded like a very nice guy, helped me with apps, now he’s just a jerk to me for what he did.</p>

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<p>Maybe he thought you were being too CCish?</p>

<p>Maybe he didn’t want to talk about apps or help anymore. What grade is he in?</p>

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<p>no offense
but why does the OP care?
you don’t really know him, he’s not really your friend if you met him once or twice in real life
he was probably just being polite when you talked to him and answered your questions
it’s not that big of a deal and don’t take it personally</p>

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<p>whatever, there’s plenty of other people. It’s not good to get attached to people other than your family unless they’re like your best friends from childhood. move on.</p>

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<p>Eh, you seem a bit clingy. Clearly, this guy wasn’t as in to as you had thought, or else he wouldn’t be avoiding you. Perhaps when he talked to you he was just being polite, seeing as you two only talked when you two were bored. He’s probably just a nice guy in general, and you just got too attached. Perhaps he realized this…?</p>

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<p>yea… now he’s someone whos going to be calling me weird and make fun of me from now on.</p>

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<p>Told you. Too concerned about his image to others. Sad. Tsk Tsk.</p>

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<p>Oh god, I thought you meant he died when I first read it.</p>

<p>Yea, it shouldn’t really matter.</p>

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<p>It’s over… :(</p>

<p>The facebook friendship could just never last…</p>

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<p>“Oh god, I thought you meant he died when I first read it.”
I did too, haha.</p>

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<p>maybe you shouldn’t have asked him about apps as much. i don’t know what to say. you swallow the sorrow and move on.</p>

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<p>I’m thinking that he’s probably thinking that he’s better than me because he has everyone who loves him, the girls, and is going to NYU next year.</p>

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<p>If he’s ignoring you/doesn’t want to talk to you, you can either a) ask him why or b) decide that he’s not worth your time and ignore him back. I’d go for b) because I’m vindictive like that. Especially if he’s an a-hole without good reason (and yes, there are actually good reasons for being an a-hole - some people are more sensitive than you’d think).</p>

<p>On another note, isn’t life simple when you reduce everything to multiple-choice questions? xD</p>

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<p>^ I said that he may be thinking that he’s thinking he’s better than me because (of the reasons listed above your comment). So it kind of makes me wonder that he isn’t really a friend even though we share the same three other friends.</p>

<p>He may did that to me on purposely because he thinks I’m like weird or something…Idk. But no response after I asked him why, electronically. It’s not like I didn’t ask.</p>

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<p>No offense, but you aren’t xactly friends with him yet. you only saw him once. Mebbe u guys have better friends that u see more often. :slight_smile: thats just me.</p>