<p>I'm in high school and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this kid I met on the first day of school to about 6 weeks ago. We got into a ridiculous argument and I think the whole thing has blown out of proportion. We haven't talked in RL since.. just a few words on myspace and they won't return my texts. I really want to be friends with this person again, and the bigger problem is that by losing this friend, I lost my other friends because we're in the same "clique" I've recently found myself near friendless and am trying to keep the friends that I would NEVER think I would be friends with before... I talk to them so I won't have to sit alone at lunch or during assembles. The problem is that I would glady come up to my old clique but it's been so long.. I honestly don't even know what happened but it seems like I haven't even really met these people before! It's really strange... now I find myself more lonely than I was on the first day of school. My friend who I don't speak to anymore seems to be doing fine... which kind of ****es me off. I'm a pretty outgoing and social person.. I don't know what's going on. I've never been in this position before! This is such a polar opposite of what I was going through just two months ago! Please help..</p>
<p>I got new friends, and I'm happier than ever. I realized that if my "best friend" was gonna treat me that way then we shoulda never been friends in the first place. </p>
<p>The problem with my school is that it's REALLY small, and people have already formed into groups.</p>
<p>And my old best friend and I had SO much in common. It was SO weird. I've never met anyone like them that I had so much in common with...it was anything from our favorite foods, what sports we do, personality traits, our life stories, our parents, etc. We had a lot of fun together, but I think the problem was that we both wanted to be a leader, and neither of us would ever give in because we're both really dominant people..</p>
<p>Well you have 2 options.. forget about them or become friends again. You want the latter so.. what was the argument about? You are sorry that it happened.. have you tried something like "Hey can we please talk" and then explain that it was stupid and you really enjoyed being friends and you don't see why its the way it is now? You said you both had dominant personalities.. to be honest I think thats a stupid reason to not get along with them if you have a million other similarities.</p>
<p>Well a few days after we got into the fight I msgd them on myspace and asked if they wanted to talk later and they said not really, i'm sick of your ****, blhablahablah then we just talked about it on myspace and at the end we said we both wanted to be friends.. but we never ended up talking in school. idk what happened. i don't want to say, hey do you want to be friends again? after over 6 weeks of not speaking to each other.. it would kind of be awkward because it seems like we've never even met, and it would also make me look friendless, but it's the truth.. for the past two days I haven't even had lunchh. it's ridiculous. I don't know what to do..</p>
<p>So if you said you both wanted to be friends whats the issue? You may not want to hear it, but if you want to be friends then suck it up and go talk. It isn't going to happen magically :-)</p>
<p>idk what the issue is! It would just be really awkward.....and i dont even know if they're interested in being friends again after all this time.</p>
<p>^^ six weeks is long when you're in a position like this, bud.
For the OP, just chill out man, talk to him if you want to be friends again...it may sound awkward but what's even more awkward for you is not having any real friends as opposed to seat fillers at lunch</p>
<p>Okay, so I talked to him and we're not going to be friends again. I don't really like his new friends anyway, though. It's not a huge deal, I guess. I just have to find a new group to hang out with... it's just going to be kind of hard since everyone has already formed all their groups and stuff.</p>