A Real Friend?

<p>The other day I asked a friend from school if he wanted to hang out and he said yeah. Then, about a few days later, I reminded him about it and he said he was busy this weekend and that he wouldn't be able to.</p>

<p>I might be paranoid, but I feel like this was either bad manners or he really didn't want to hang out in the first place (which he could have said). After all if he said yes before how could he be too busy?</p>

<p>It's not like we hang out all the time outside of school, though we do occasionally. I help him a lot with homework and studying in schools. Is this a sign that I'm only his friend for academic purposes or am I taking this too personally?</p>

<p>I think you may be over analyzing it a bit. It probably just slipped his mind and he wound up having other things to do.</p>

<p>=] Jenn</p>

<p>if it has happened before and he avoids you a lot, maybe he doesnt truly like you. but if it is just this one time he probably just forgot.</p>

<p>You're taking it too personally. It's just hanging out. Nothing special. Plus, you're both seniors, right? Cut him some slack!</p>

<p>Ok, thanks. And yeah we are both seniors (I don't really get your point though...). Unless you mean we only have one more year left together (I've thought about that and it's sad but I figure get over it now and jut have fun with your friends while you can) or that he has college stuff to do (our school yuear hasnt started yet and I really doubt he's doing college work).</p>

<p>I'll just let it go.</p>

<p>yup
over analyzing. don't make a big deal out of it..my friends do it to me all the time, i don't care.</p>

<p>I meant that he probably has a lot of stuff to do.</p>

<p>Wow, talk about reading into things, OP.</p>

<p>Yeah I guess. But he probably could have apologized for forgetting. When I asked him again he acted like I was asking him for a favor</p>