Happiness or convenience?

<p>I recently received my Associates degree from a WA community college. If I go to a public school other than UW-Seattle, all of my credits will transfer and I will automatically be a junior. Unfortunately, no WA schools have good programs for my primary major (African American Studies*). I also have no desire to return to WA.</p>

<p>I was accepted into my dream school, University of Maryland: College Park, which has a great AAS program as well as a few others that I would like to get into. The campus is just what I’m looking for and where I am looking for it (big school, but in/near a city). However, tuition is roughly $40K+ per year and I haven’t gotten word about any financial aid yet.</p>

<p>I’m waiting to hear back from Howard University, which is another dream school for different reasons. I would prefer to study AAS at a HBCU, as well as finish out my undergrad experience at a HBCU. But HU’s admin team is notoriously atrocious and I’m not sure they have much financial aid to offer me. The school is about $25K per year.</p>

<p>I was also accepted in my safety, Georgia State, but that is an ultimate last choice. </p>

<p>My biggest fear is being more than $7K in debt after undergrad, because I plan to go to grad school. My first two years of college were paid 100% by scholarships and grants so it would only be for 2-2.5 years of schooling. I am considering staying in-state (WI) or moving back to WA to take advantage of in-state tuition benefits. But, I strongly dislike the idea of having to settle. I hate WI with a passion and would rather not return to WA.</p>

<p>My question to you all is: what would you do, and why? Would you sacrifice happiness at your dream school for convenience at a local school? Each option has its pros and cons, but I can’t figure out with pros are worth the cons and which cons are not worth the pros. I would love to hear from people who have completed undergrad, but those who are still in it are more than welcome to respond as well. Thanks.</p>

<p>*Subject to change, because I'm indecisive.</p>

<p>How about a third option. Get a job and go to your dream school part-time. Unless you have a co-signer you can’t get enough loans to pay for full-time at your dream schools.</p>

<p>Happiness is all about attitude.</p>

<p>A twist on option 3. See whether a full-time employee at any of your dream schools gets benefits that include one or two classes for free each semester. It will take longer, but you’ll just need to pay the geneeral fees.</p>