<p>Soozie,
sorry for the delay in my response....I do agree that NO one has a lock on any school....unless one walks on water??? </p>
<p>I can only hope that a kid who is striving to be best of the best (of the overprivledged??) has someone there helping them keep a wide lens view and not a narrow focus. It cannot be a means to an end... it needs to be important for its own right. I do not personally know what the numbers/percentages look like overall for RSI or Siemens or Intel winners.. for either early or for RD......for the past 5 yrs. Part of my job involves performance analysis of computers....and I have learned to look for trends and for abnormalities. All I really meant was a "kid" looking at the numbers...and thinking that my chances are better because I am the best.....in fact 40% of folks that match me have gotten in, in the past......it is easy to be seduced by this view... and they may not even know themselves how much they are banking on it. </p>
<p>I think my perspective was more one of a kid who is really all about numbers not really being prepared to see themselves as an exception. </p>
<p>In fact, in our little town this year, we have had great success with early acceptances....Dartmouth, Wesleyan, Holy Cross, Haverford, Georgetown etc etc..... not hearing of any Yale, Princeton, Columbia or Harvard early apps, never mind decisions on them....which leads me to believe that kids this year at least, here, did change their sights??? </p>
<p>I know when I read the top kids article in USA today I am always amazed and in awe of what these kids are accomplishing. Not sure how much assistance they have...but, at the end of the day, they own who they claim to be......eventually they will have to stand on their own. </p>
<p>Bandit, I remain unconvinced that priviledge is buying all these top spots. I think priviledge can provide an awful lot of distractions or illusions of success that cannot withstand close inspection. To get to the top of the heap in Intel or Siemens or RSI etc etc...... the kid has to have some real content.....that is my gut...I think there are a lot of priviledged kids who are a real disappointment to their parents.....I would bet probably more who disappoint than ones whose parents are proud?? </p>
<p>I guess my wish for the admissions process is that I wish kids didn't take it all so personally. Both acceptance and deferral/rejection. College is only 4 yrs of one's life. There are so many places where great things can happen....academically, research opps, creative outlets, political petri dishes, etc etc.....I have a very dear friend whose son wanted desperately to go to MIT......he was not accepted, he went to Tufts. He got a great award ($$) upon graduation and is currently getting his PHD at Harvard, paid for by Harvard. And oh, by the way, he can take classes at MIT if he needs a course not offered by Harvard. My view is that this worked out exactly perfect!! Once upon a time, he might have been sad...but, not today!!</p>