Hello.
I have been accepted to Harvard for my M.Ed and to Oxford for my MSc in Education. (Got accepted to Harvard last year and deferred because of a family problem, but could still withdraw if I decide to go to Oxford.)
I’m having a difficult time deciding which to attend.
Factors to consider:
1.) I’m an American citizen and currently live in America
2.) I wouldn’t mind working in the UK but, given the difficulty of getting a tier 2 visa, I will probably return to the US. I’ve never visited England or Europe either, and have no idea if I would like it or not. (Which could be a pro or a con, really. I’m a pretty adventurous guy.)
3.) Harvard is more practical for professional purposes in the US–Harvard alumni obviously far out number Oxford alumni here, and if I went to Harvard, I could network throughout my grad school year at the many, many great schools in New England, and figure out where I might want to work by seeing the schools in person
4.) On the other hand, I have always been fascinated with English culture and Oxbridge, and I feel that I might really regret not taking the opportunity to study overseas
5.) When I visited Harvard, I didn’t really like the whole uber-liberal, social-justicey culture I encountered there. The Ed department especially seems to be OBSESSED with racial issues, and I got the vibe that any dissenting voices would be shamed.
I’m so torn. I’m literally lying awake at night, trying to decide, and feeling decision paralysis. I know it’s a good problem to have, but my choice could seriously effect the rest of my life. Any advice would be helpful.