<p>Hey redline, if you don’t mind me asking, here or somewhere else, can you talk a bit about the deferral thing, and what you did once you found out, and what you’ve done with this year? Thanks!</p>
<p>Hi guys! I’m new to this whole waitlist thingy, so I just wanted to ask what terms and conditions apply when I accept my place on the waiting list. I got waitlisted by 4 colleges, so am I only allowed to accept one, or can I accept all four of them? And if Harvard somehow accepts me, is it binding on me to attend Harvard? Thanks :)</p>
<p>I’m definitely not holding out hope for getting accepted off of the wait list. It seems that the chances are very slim. I’m bummed, but Yale and Stanford are not bad choices.</p>
<p>So… lots of you are planning to go to your other ivy or Stanford… but I got waitlisted at Harvard, Princeton AND Georgetown. Doesn’t the fact that I was waitlisted at 2 out of the top 3 schools in the nation mean I should have gotten into another great school? Even just statistically? Oh I really hope I get off the waitlist.</p>
<p>Seriously I was outright rejected by every other school I applied to. I don’t know how I got on Harvard’s waitlist XD but if I never get off…I wouldn’t know where to go lol.</p>
<p>Find out who’s the regional admissions officer for your part of the world and try to befriend her/him. (Either call or email the Harvard admissions office to find out. In my experience, they’re friendly and responsive, though I’ve heard that isn’t always the case.) I kept in contact with my regional rep – sending updates when I had significant news (like an honor I received at HS commencement), and letting her know that I really still wanted Harvard. I tried to put a little of myself in the emails, hoping to personalize the relationship as much as possible. I think that helped keep me on her short list of people she hoped to get in, though, I don’t really know for sure. </p>
<p>PhotoMac asked:
I knew all along that I wanted Harvard. After I got the call, my parents pushed me to come up with a plan for the gap year. I wound up doing part-time jobs, reading, writing (sent in one piece for publication, haven’t heard back), and chilling with friends. I would absolutely do it again.</p>
<p>^My S has had a great gap too–and is now just starting to chomp on the bit to get to college, which, after 5 A levels he wouldn’t have been (and wasn’t) last September. Harvard is absolutely right, take one if you have any ability to do so. </p>
<p>Harvard doesn’t much care what you do–although they send a letter in February or so asking what you have been up to–except you can’t go be in degree program at another university (which would kinda defeat the purpose of the gap year anyway). He has had frinds who have traveled around the world, worked on political campaigns, worked on their martial arts seriously, volunteered in health and education settings, composed music, and worked in regular jobs. All are worthwhile. All will give you time to reflect about what you want from college–and help re-set the excitement button.</p>