<p>Ohh I just noticed that you posted on here! :b</p>
<p>@MidwestMom2kids_ : Thank you so much for that detailed response. I really appreciate it! I know it really sucks that I can’t find a lot of good info about MN state -mankato or SCSU here on CC I’ve used the search button like, 100000 times :)</p>
<p>I think I might be able to make it next saturday to SCSU for their admitted students preview day. I’m not going to get my hopes too high…but I’m just really grateful for at least getting accepted somewhere–it’s definitely a start. They’ve really been trying to reach out to me sending me a ton of mail/brochures/ acceptance letters/bumper stickers…and in one of their brochures I read that they send many of their science grads to top schools like JHU and Caltech…and others to harvard and umich law schools…</p>
<p>And yes, honestly I would have much, much rather attended my local CCs-- Normandale or MCTC. But in my case I can’t because of my current situation at home…my mom threatens that I if I go to a CC I won’t be living at home Although it would kind of be nice since I’d have a guaranteed transfer agreement with the UMN-TC. Also, since I’ll be away from home and have the resources like the library, dorms and not having to worry about commuting everyday.</p>
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<p>thank you this gives me some reassurance I don’t think there’s too much of a difference between a CC and a low tier state school? as long as they’re accredited I should be fine! (apparently according the an Emory admissions officer when I asked her about if they factor in/care about the institution the transfer applicant would be applying to). Also, im low income my EFC=0 so i don’t have to worry about paying for SCSU …i should be getting my fin. aid award letter soon…</p>
<p>So far, I’ve been making a lot of progress getting my act together and doing well in school…even though I’m a second semester senior lol. I plan on taking mostly genEds @ SCSU so I don’t have to worry about transferring credits in the future. I also plan on working my butt off and getting a 3.5+ gpa and joing clubs, organizations and volunteering in things that I actually like (example: Muslims Students Assoc., African Students Assoc. , Econ club (?), big brothers & sisters…, internships/work…stuff like that–and they all have those orgs at SCSU…they have something like 200+ clubs & organizations) I also plan on establishing myself and making my mark on them…with the goal of even gaining some officer positions by the time I am a sophomore. I also plan on establishing strong relationships with my professors in hopes to gain better insights on my current field of study, develop stronger writing skills and of course, gain good Letters of recommendation from them I really, really want to prove how much I’ve matured and am capable of handling college level work.</p>
<p>Since I want more time to prove my abilities …I plan on being a jr transfer. So my HS record would be weighted less and the adcoms will focus more on what I’m doing now. luckily, the U of M doesn;t even look at HS stuff after 26 credits Some of my dream schools are UPENN, Emory, WUSTL , Northeastern, Temple,UVA, Howard, George Mason etc just to name a few of the schools I would like to hopefully transfer to. However, I’m not going to get my hopes up too high and I will be realistic and still have my eyes set on my state flagship, UMN-TC. I just really want to move away from MN…even move out east b/c I miss living there sooo much. But I like mpls, and the umn-tc…even though it’s huge but hey, at least I like it and it’s affordable </p>
<p>I’m sure there are many happy students at SCSU and other 3rd tier universities…but I feel like staying at SCSU (if i do end up there–i still havent heard back from some of the other schools i have applied to) I wont be able to achieve the goals I would like to reach in the future. And it’s certainly not the best college fit for me in terms of academics and social life. But I’m not complaining and I wouldn’t mind putting up with it for 2 years.</p>
<p>The anxiety is taking over me everyday I obsess over the “what ifs” if I don’t get accepted anywhere as a transfer…or if I don’t get enough financial aid and I will be stuck at a college I’m not happy at = my college years have gone down the drain. I keep on telling myself to make the most out of wherever I am. So I hope I can maintain that mentality. I am a strong person and hopefully I should be able to overcome adversity and come out of this as a successful, more mature woman with a different perspective on life. I feel like the other schools I am interested in will open up many more doors for me.</p>
<p>I have the mentality that failure only makes us better, stronger & faster. I always pass by this one motivation poster that says, “If you don’t succeed you’re in good company” so many successful people in this world haven’t had their taste of success without failing (see: Abe Lincoln).</p>
<p>I guess I’m just gonna have pick myself up, dust myself off and try again.</p>
<p>***There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.
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<p>- Malcolm X</p>