<p>Okay guys. </p>
<p>I found out why my ex who supposedly loved me to death decided to stop talking to me as he had been doing for MORE THAN 2 YEARS daily for 2-3 hours on phone. </p>
<p>It wasn't another girl. </p>
<p>It wasn't, like some suggested, that his parents got to him. </p>
<p>It wasn't that he realized we were too far since he moved. </p>
<p>Nope. </p>
<p>It was music. </p>
<p>Yup. </p>
<p>He thought his $15 CD is more worthy of his time than me. </p>
<p>In his eyes, blasting his drums is way more important than talking to me. </p>
<p>Maybe some musicians would agree. But you know what? That's the guy that dedicated hours and hours of his time to me. That talked to my parents and family so they could be happy with our relationship. That bought me a diamond promise ring. </p>
<p>That was always, always there with no exception. </p>
<p>THAT GUY has stopped talking to me because if he has 2 hours in his hands and two choices- girlfriend or music? girlfriend or music? girlfriend or music?</p>
<p>He chooses music. </p>
<p>It's ridiculous. He is incredibly obssesed. It's disgusting really. Augh. It disgustes me. </p>
<p>Once, I saw this thread in the Cafe here that said: "All the people you'd meet in college". It was hilarious. All these descriptions of different types of people. </p>
<p>One of them said something like: "Music Major. Practice 5 hours a day for a degree that will give them no money. Only date other music majors because 'no one else understands their need to practice 5 hours' a day."</p>
<p>It wasn't exactly that but something like that. </p>
<p>And now, it hits me. I'll try really hard and never date a musician again.</p>