<p>ok i think dvlfnfv5 might be right i might just want a boy toy. I also just want to spend more time with him he's a funny and attractive kid. Is it that wrong?</p>
<p>Smiles/wishiwere, yeah unless you and the boy can see each other this summer, then just forget it, he's still a junior and he'll probably hook up more with high schoolers, as will you when you're in college.</p>
<p>sorry i went over to my friends house and wanted to check this thread but i forgot it automatically logged on to her account when i posted, but now i've switched over to mine =)</p>
<p>but yea we are both here for the summer</p>
<p>okay wait, what i said came out wrong. I meant that there's definently a gap between high school and college, and since you're a freshman in college, you'll find other "funny/attractive" college boys to experience, and he'll probably still hook up with high schoolers.</p>
<p>alright i guess if you want a summer fling, go for it, just don't get too attached</p>
<p>The summer is three months long. That's longer than a lot of relationships anyway. I'd say just try it and see what happens.</p>
<p>Hah, she said I was right. I'm always right...muahahaha...</p>
<p>I'd say try it...like the above said, summer is longer than a lot of relationships. You definitely have nothing to lose by telling him you like him. Don't get too attached, though it's hard. You'll have a hard time letting go, no doubt about it. But if you like this boy enough, you'll think it was worth it.</p>
<p>I'm "sort of" in the same dilemma. Except I'm a junior who has a crush on a senior who is graduating. He's staying on island. Some people have told me he use to like me. We use to talk, but the problem is he is my ex's friend. I was thinking about telling him I liked him this year before he graduated, but I've been told that's a bad idea...</p>
<p>doublechocolatechip go for it if you like him you have nothing to lose since you wont have to see him if you dont want to. How do you tell someone you like them that way?</p>
<p>OP,
I'm a guy who's never had a gf and is having a gf-less summer too (sigh...I know how it feels). My advise is that wait a few more months till college because letting go of a relationship is hard and u don't want anything like that spoiling ur first few weeks of college.</p>
<p>I'm not sure yet. I have ~2 weeks to decide...I'm afraid I'll still see him around...Hawaii's a small place. I'd also have to deal with the ex issue...because they all hang out in groups, and seeing that it didn't end that well (broke up with me for another girl in a horrible, horrible way), it's hard. I know if I told him, he'd probably tell his other friends. I think I'm pretty much known as "guy's" ex to them. I also know one of them doesn't like me for reasons I don't know. I really do like him though...t_t. </p>
<p>^^and in response to the Arjun Shankar Prakash, I'd have to reformat my opinion a little bit and partly agree with that. If you can't deal with parting with him, don't do it. You don't want to ruin the beginning of college that way. But if you really, really like him, and know the time you'll spend together that summer will be worth it, then go for it. (Especially since you think he likes you too. :])</p>
<p>Go for it. You'll help him hook up with more girls later on because for one year he'll be the kid who hooked up with an older chick.</p>
<p>And the fact you'll be going to college in three months is no reason to spend the whole summer wishing you'd decided to try it. Just enjoy the last summer before college!</p>