Guy problems/advice????? Please?

<p>Okay all, I'm a senior girl and I like a junior boy. He's definitely a hottie. At the Valentine's Day dance, he came up to me, took me by the hand, and led me out into the middle of the dance floor and we spent the last half hour of the dance dancing together. But, life just went back to normal on Monday (yesterday). Argh, any advice? Come on, I know all you studs and babes have got some good tips as to how I can get him to maybe ask me out? ~ some way that's reasonable and keeping in mind that I have a strict dress code... possibly ruling out some tactics lol.</p>

<p>Thanks guys!</p>

<p>umm...talk to him? hang out with him? maybe I'm not understanding what you want...</p>

<p>How did the two of you part when you were done dancing? Was it a good way or a bad way? Some of us guys are really, really sensitive to signs of rejection. Then again, rest assured that he likes you. Few guys would waste that vital last half-hour of a dance with a girl they didn't like. Have you given him any signals that you like him? We guys often miss things or don't believe what we see. Just my two cents.</p>

<p>Obviously he likes you. If he won't talk to you, you should talk to him.</p>

<p>outastate: when the dance was over he kept hanging out with me for a bit when we all went outside and even started talking to me and one of my friends about prom! but then our frickin' dean of students (disciplinarian dude) was like "hey, rob, come 'ere a sec." dunno what was up with that but it definitely ruined my chance to give him my #. random...</p>

<p>Ask him out. Guys don't want to have to think about all of this crap about whether you like him or if he'd look like an ass if he asked you out. He likes you, he asked you to dance, so just ask him.</p>

<p>Damn, that's the first piece of advice I've given in a while that wasn't a joke or meant to **** someone off, make good use of it.</p>

<p>Well, have you talked to him on Monday or Tuesday? He clearly was acting like he likes you. I agree with GuitarShredder -- if I were the guy and I hadn't talked to the girl I spent the last half-hour of a dance with, or something like that, the reason would be that I was nervous about what to do next. He probably can't believe his own good fortune. Seriously, just keep talking to him, no matter what. Golly, aren't those authority figures so inconvenient? They're always in the way...</p>

<p>lol, thanks you guys! :)</p>

<p>BuMP! Anybody else wanna add their two cents?</p>

<p>Talking to him certainly can't hurt</p>

<p>Talk to him. Just talk. Don't be flirty. Don't be condescending.
Let him know who you are. Then STRIKE!</p>

<p>He's a JUNIOR guy of COURSE he will want a SENIOR girl (unless he's already taken) :-)</p>

<p>You have nothing to fear but... rejection. And next year you'll be off in college so whats the problem?! He'll be stuck in HS heh heh heh</p>