help me choooose?

<ul>
<li>how working in my internship changed my life/ ways I do things/made me care about school more</li>
<li>when my mom got into a car accident and I had to be more responsible and it taught me how much family did mean to me because before they were crap to me lmao</li>
<li>going to my home country and seeing the place i was born and feeling more connected to it and being all cultural since i left when i was 3
-my room leaks everytime it rains a lot and ive always rushed home to make sure my computer and books werent wet but one day the cieling was like half falling down and rain poured in it for hours before anyone noticed. all the books that i had since i was 3 were damaged and I felt like a part of me was gone and i cried over it for so long, but i got over it and now i have a new set of books to define a new part of my life</li>
</ul>

<p>anyways</p>