Help me decide where to ED

I’m a current senior trying to decide where to ED. My top schools are Colgate, University of Richmond, Bowdoin, and BC. Since all of these schools have good academics, I am more concerned about the student life/social aspects for all of them. I think I want to be in a sorority, but it’s not a dealbreaker if I can’t. I would rather go to a school where there is no Greek life at all than one where Greek life is super competitive and overpowering.

Colgate: I was able to tour here and loved the campus. I really liked the small community feel of the school, although the tiny town size is a bit of a bummer. I know that since they’re D1 there are a lot of athletes and I just wonder if the social scene tends to be divided between athletes and non-athletes.

University of Richmond: I haven’t visited here yet, but I plan to in 2 weeks. I’ve heard that it’s a gorgeous campus but that Richmond as a city tends to be a bit rougher. I also worry a little bit about the Southern culture, although I’ve heard it’s mostly east coasters.

Bowdoin: I don’t think I have the grades of the extracurricular wow to get into this school on my own, but I have a relatively significant legacy so that may help a bit. Overall this is the highest ranked school academically, so I almost feel like I would be wasting my leg up not to ED. The main thing holding me back is that I’ve heard the social life is completely dead. I love Maine, but I’m not sure I would be happy there in the dead of winter with nothing to do on the weekends.

BC: I visited the campus and wasn’t totally in love with it, but I had also just heard a bunch of bad things about the school (that I’m not even sure are true) that may have impacted the way I saw it. I loved the close proximity to a city, but, being from the Midwest, I felt a little bit overwhelmed by the fast paced atmosphere of the city. On paper, this school is everything I want, so I worry that I didn’t give it a full chance when I visited.

I know that was a lot so thank you for even reading this far and any small advice really helps!!

I would not ED anywhere since you do not have a clear cut first choice.

I agree.

Tagging some CC experts who may be able to shed light on these schools: Bowdoin @homerdog Colgate @kpopmomrunner BC @privatebanker and @xyz123a Richmond @havenoidea

Even though you’re confident these schools offer the strong general academics you seek, you may want to state your intended major, if known, to enhance potential responses.

Generally agree.

This seems to be a frequently asked question.