<p>I wouldn’t say that St Paul is necessary where you go to settle down but it is definitely smaller and feels much smaller than Mpls. I went away to college and when I returned, St Paul felt a lot smaller than it had when I was growing up there. It’s a matter of taste. St Paul has a good number of Catholics. I didn’t think about it until I started noticing as I got older and moved out of St Paul that when I said I grew up in St Paul, people often asked me “which parish?” and it felt like they always knew someone who lived in the same parish. </p>
<p>However, that said, I agree w/ the poster who mentioned Grand Av area and I would add Mac/Groveland area in St Paul (near Macalester College - where students do love their music). Those areas have a lot of younger people and are very active with lots to do just walking around. They don’t have the same “which parish?” feel because of this - more dynamic areas.</p>
<p>Highland Park is safe and a nice place, but definitely quieter and I would say it is more filled with people settling down with families. The neighborhoods seem mostly filled w/ families or young couples).</p>
<p>Uptown is much more urban feeling than anywhere you would find in St Paul. Many people I know, including my sister, lived there for awhile after college (usually renting a house w/ college pals). However, most of them moved as they got more professional jobs.</p>
<p>There is a good music scene in the TC area - especially around the U of MN and Macalester. The SPCO plays in both cities and there is also the Schubert Club in St Paul which sponsors musical events. There are also many open mic type music places in both cities if your son wants to perform informally. </p>
<p>Mpls & St Paul are just across the river from one another -15-20 mins b/t downtown areas by freeway, so I would think about whether your son wants to live in a more urban environment (eg Uptown) with lots going on all the time vs less urban (eg, Grand Av and Mac/Groveland) that are a bit quieter but still have things going around. Both areas let you walk to activities and shops and have younger people. I personally think Grand Av & Mac/Groveland are safer areas in general than Uptown area. When I was looking for an apt in an area I did not know well, I went to my insurance company and compared prices of insuring the same car in the different areas. THe price goes up in areas considered less safe by the insurance company. </p>
<p>I’m not sure where you son is working, but sometimes companies say they are in St Paul or Mpls and they are actually in a suburb, which can add considerably to commute time - especially if he plans to use public transportation. So how he plans to commute to work may be a factor in where he chooses to live. More info on where he is working (even general area) and how he plans to commute would be helpful. Eg, 3M is east of downtown St Paul so if your son lived in Mpls, he would have to commute through St Paul during rush hour. Boston Scientific locations would come up as St Paul address, but you would take different freeways/routes from Mpls etc. </p>
<p>I would also ask his employer for suggestions. They know the area/commute and recruit young engineers.</p>