<p>I was accepted at all three, however I don't qualify for any financial aid. I would be a legacy student at F&M, and Muhlenberg is offering me a $15,000 per year scholarship, however my significant other goes there, which makes me extremely hesitant because it would otherwise be a great fit for what I want from a college experience. I don't know what specific major I'm going to be yet, though I will go into the Pre-Law program at whichever school I end up choosing. I wish I could do everything! My family has left the decision entirely up to me and won't contribute any of their opinions. I'm also worried about how my personality will clash at the schools because I come from a small school in South Jersey so I have a habit of trying to make myself a big fish in a small pond, and I'm a little...offbeat at times.</p>
<p>Have you visited? It sounds like you need to visit each to see how you fit in. Muhlenberg’s $15,000 scholarship is hard to pass up, but you are smart to consider the consequences of attending the same school your significant other attends. All three are good options, but no one can tell you which one you will feel most comfortable at. Take the time to visit. (I hope you pick F & M, only because I like that one the best.)</p>
<p>I’ve seen F&M and the campus really is beautiful. I’m going to see the other two next weekend at their open houses for accepted students to hopefully figure it all out.</p>
<p>Why do you not want to go to Muhlenberg? Is it that you think your significant other would be a distraction? If so, Lafeyette is much closer than F&M so visiting each other would be easier.</p>
<p>Other than that have you looked at the different curriculum that is offered? You might find that one has more classes that are of interest to you than the others.</p>
<p>Stop stressing and go to accepted student days for all three. Your top choice will emerge from that. Lafayette is a very nice school and we’ve known several families with kids who have loved it and gotten good jobs after graduation. It doesn’t have the artsy vibe, though; it has a more pre-professional feel.</p>