<p>I'm in a desperate emergency with homecoming. Let me briefly set up the situation.</p>
<p>I am pretty decent friends with probably the hottest girl in our school. She was in my classes last year, we worked together, etc. We talk all the time still and homecoming is approaching. And no I'm not the geeky kid asking about how to ask this hard 10 to the dance. I'm not insane.</p>
<p>So last week we were bull ****ting in the office and she said that she didn't have a date to homecoming. I was like oh, that sucks...not really knowing what to say. So then she laid it on me and asked if I would go with her. I must have looked like a deer in the headlights because she smiled, said think about it, and walked away. So of course I didn't sleep that night.</p>
<p>The next day I saw her again and she asked if I had thought about homecoming. I asked her why her boyfriend isnt going, because I know who she is dating, she said he cant because of college baseball. This sent up a red flag for me. </p>
<p>That friday at the football game, HE came up to me and basically interrogated me about me taking his woman to homecoming. I cant really include the details because I almost passed out from pure fear. ok thats an exaggeration.</p>
<p>My friends' views are split. Some say I can't go with her because (A.) I'm obviously her second choice at best and (B.) Her Boyfriend will kill me.</p>
<p>The others say if I don't go with her, I am (A.) Going to regret it for the rest of my life and (B.) Gay. </p>
<p>“I must have looked like a deer in the headlights”
“So of course I didn’t sleep that night.”
“I cant really include the details because I almost passed out from pure fear.”</p>
<p>As a girl, I say go. You’re going as her friend, not her boyfriend, and as long as you realize that, you should have fun. Clearly, she thinks she’s going to have fun with you!</p>
<p>So what if you are her second choice? Means that as soon as she gets rid of her boyfriend she’ll go after you. Better increase your chances now, showing you are a nice, brave guy, who wants to help her have a great time.</p>
<p>-Do you want to eventually get with her?
-Do you think she might want to ditch him?
-Do you have any football/hockey/wrestler friends? (mostly just kiddin’ on this one)</p>
<p><a href=“B.”>quote</a> Her Boyfriend will kill me.
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<p>This, and you’ll be causing trouble in their relationship. I wouldn’t.
Of course, if you don’t say yes, she’ll probably ask someone else anyway.
And if you don’t say yes, make sure she knows you’d love to have gone if not for her boyfriend. That way, you come off as a good person and she won’t take it as a rejection.</p>
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<li><p>Considering later benefits with her is all very well, but is she just using you in some way to get closer to her boyfriend?</p></li>
<li><p>Do you seriously want to be known as the hottest girl’s second choice?</p></li>
<li><p>Do you want to feel her boyfriend’s hot, rancid breath down the back of your neck one day?</p></li>
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<p>7.Is she that hot? Would you go with a girl who sees you as second choice or use her invitation to get some other really hot girl of your choice? Because if she is that hot, this incident implies some noteworthy hotness on your part.</p>
<p>Seriously. Just say that you’ve already thought about asking someone else. That way you can get away with being her second choice without losing too much dignity lol.</p>
<p>Go. It’s not like you’re getting married, it’s just homecoming. If you went as a “date” you wouldn’t have fun anyway. Her boyfriend is amateur if he feels threatened by a high schooler at a high school dance</p>
<p>Besides, being second choice in this situation isn’t bad. Since her boyfriend couldn’t go anyway, you’re basically first… ya know? Especially if she’s the hottest girl in the school, and she’d ask a guy who goes on CC? Fo really?</p>
<p>Thanks futureexec your posts always make me laugh lol. And this may be a first for CC
But yes she is definitely that hot. I think i’ll go and try to enjoy it. But as someone said, is there something wrong with being a hard ten’s second choice?
I just see people asking all night where He is and who she is with. Then me being there awkwardly next to her when she explains he had baseball.
I also can’t dance so my friend says i should bring his friend Mr. Flask. I think that is probably a bad idea though lol.</p>