<p>Ok maybe “frisk” was a bad word, but that would make a guy wanna get touchy, basically something that shows off your body.</p>
<p>It wouldn’t be random either. Get to know them via flirting duh</p>
<p>Yeah, it’s been my experience that showing skin attracts the wrong type of guys.</p>
<p>Well your the one in control if your wearing the attractive thing and if your the one controlling where the conversation is going, especially to find out whether the guy is creepy or not</p>
<p>how a girl is having trouble socializing is beyond me unless shes completely unattractive</p>
<p>op just needs to ask around<br>
guys especially will oblige</p>
<p>@reveri, you’re*</p>
<p>Yes this “frisk” you talk about sounds a lot like just putting out to anyone. I highly recommend you not building up the reputation of being easy.</p>
<p>By frisk ok i mean like getting hugged. not like actually getting felt up or frisked i really do regret using that word now…</p>
<p>@Mike</p>
<p>Why does everyone assume that if a girl has problems socializing, she must be unattractive?</p>
<p>^ i did not say that</p>
<p>i said that basically all attractive girls will have no trouble socializing they dont even need to try </p>
<p>therefore unattractiveness is necessary but not sufficient in a girl having trouble socializing in 95% of cases</p>
<p>@Reveri3 </p>
<p>I was just giving you a hard time I know you meant it in a less physical context. What’s life without satire and laughter thanks for being a good sport.</p>
<p>Parties as far as being invited to is 99% word of mouth. So branch out with your friends, you will get invited to something sooner or later, if you are diverse in who you hang out with. Or like mentioned, just kind of go into one you see or hear going. Some frats or Sor have “greek only” like parties. But having attended a few, they weren’t that much fun (The house party that was with mostly 21 and over people was way more fun). That whole big party, exclusive, etc is mostly in movies. Aside from a few instances reported by the media. Project X, Old School, Animal House, Social Network, are MOVIES, created by a writer and director to be larger then life, and for you to envy it. Keep that in mind during your party expectation hunt. You will find a few people who hold “gatherings” semi-often, which in turn are parties.</p>
<p>I’m sorry but the guy above is wrong. I have been to tons of HUGE parties with easily over a hundred people at each one of them, and those are only the house parties I have been to! When I was pledging my fraternity we put on a party for over 300 people in a warehouse that we rented, it was just like the movies but better. So it does happen you just have to know people.</p>
<p>Also, this “Of course, the best way for parties…is to get in a fraternity. BUT, don’t expect every fraternities to have booze or stuff. Many frat houses take underage drinking seriously, and won’t serve alcohol to you unless you are 21…at least the responsible houses do.” Made me lol. Not a single fraternity on my campus any rule like that, of course your technically supposed to, but I have never heard of it.</p>
<p>I agree with the others that say you need to meet people. I, personally, would never go to a party alone but if you really want I think you’ll be okay. I recommend knocking on doors or if someone has their dorm room open just be like “hey…i’m bored let’s go find something to do.” Even if you don’t go to a party you’ll have made a friend for future parties. If you have frats at your school you should have no problem getting in being a girl. As for how often are there parties the answer is probably every night but especially Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. Weekday parties are a little harder to find though in my experience. I, too, go to a big party school and that’s how it is here.</p>
<p>I honestly can’t imagine knocking on random people’s doors and asking them that…</p>