<p>This has been on my mind for quite a while now and I just can't seem to solve the problem. Almost every time there's a test or quiz someone'll come up to me and say "Please man, I didn't study so please man let me copy your answers". This makes my blood boil. I just want to answer back with a reply such as why didn't you study? were you too busy with your head up your ass playing Black Ops? Can anyone relate to this type of problem?</p>
<p>Not only that, but I'm not too good when it comes to girls, so today at an exam a girl kept telling me "Hey what's the answer to 56"..I didn't answer, she asked again, then she finally said "At least look at me!", so I turned around and she said "56" right in my face. I got embaressed and didn't know what to say in the middle of the test, and ended giving her the answer and oh was I so wrong. After the test, a few slackers from my class confronted me and said "Hey, so you let girls cheat off your paper but not us? That's some faggotry right there". Today was one ****ing bad day.</p>
<p>So anyway, how do you people deal with is? I don't want people to cheat off my paper. I study hard and don't want to give away my effort to a bunch of slackers who couldn't lay off Black Ops for an hour or two. Then again, I don't want to be shunned out by my classmates and I don't want to be an outsider. I still want to fit in. I'm in a dilemma here. What should I do? Serious advice please.</p>
<p>i know what you mean about peer pressure. if someone, anyone, asks me for my homework, i’m going to say yes, even if the teacher who’s going around to stamp the hw is a few minutes from getting to my table. not that this happens a lot to me; it did happen a few days ago though. if this became a regular occurence, like it is for you, i think i would get p i ssed off. i would probably just tell them no. if they threaten you with violence or something, i’d probably just comply though. that’s just me</p>
<p>i was just thinking right now that i’d never let someone cheat off my test, but then i remembered last year in spanish class when it was literally the last day of school and we were taking finals. the girl behind me asked to copy my test, and so i let her. i’m still not sure whether or not she actually copied though, because well i obviously never turned around to look or had the nerve to ask her. this is the only occurrence that i can remember happening to me. like i said, if it became a daily occurrence i would definitely say no. i try to be an agreeable person too, but you have to set limits</p>
<p>^ I’d love to that ahahahaha. Problem is, when they get Fs and I get B/As, they’ll start to **** around with me. Nah, it’d make for a good laugh that’s for sure (lol) but it wouldn’t solve the problem.</p>
<p>I think your decision this matter will show a lot about your courage and character. Things always work out how they should in the end. Think about that and make a decision.</p>
<p>If they’re my genuine friends I’ll let them have them because friends help friends. If they’re not my friends I’ll either pull an arm bar or tell them that they can do it without my help.</p>
<p>In my experience, people won’t “hate” you if you just tell them you won’t give them the answers or if you don’t feel comfortable with that, and they’ll understand. Does anyone else think this might work? =/</p>
<p>Dont let others intimidate you. I used to be the same way in elementary school. Just say “no, I rather not share MY answers with you.”
Dont worry about hurting others people’s feelings.</p>
<p>Lay it out in a relaxed way. If you get all uppity about how damn special your physics homework is, everyone’s going to be *<strong><em>ed at you. So just be relaxed, don’t freak out. If they push the matter, give them that look that says “I don’t take *</em></strong>” and don’t say anything more. If you argue they’ll think there’s leeway.</p>