<p>Come on OP, post a pic! This thread is all theoretical until you do.</p>
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<p>I don’t mind if I catch a girl or a group of girls staring at me, but when they approach me things never go well.</p>
<p>The first thing you need to do is look at a mirror.</p>
<p>And evaluate. </p>
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<p>There’s your answer.</p>
<p>what do you mean things never go well? because they wanna get down or hang out thats not going well?</p>
<p>I think the problem is when they meet him, they discover his personality. I pretty sure not much can go right after that.</p>
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<p>If you are looking for a guy who is going to tell jokes and make you laugh… I am not that guy.</p>
<p>If you are looking for a guy who is going to give you compliments…I am not that guy.</p>
<p>If you are looking for a guy who is going to badmouth people… I am not that guy.</p>
<p>If you are looking for a guy who is conversationalist… I am not that guy.</p>
<p>I don’t know what you are looking for in terms of personality.</p>
<p>Why would anybody want to talk to you if you’re not a conversationalist? What’s a conversationalist anyway, isn’t that just somebody who likes to have conversations?</p>
<p>But he is the guy that will regularly change his identity. You’ll meet him one day as Todd and he’ll come back as Fred.</p>
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<p>I am thinking of a guy who is going to tell you stories and share with you his insights of the world. In my case, I try to keep the interaction going by asking questions, and tend to feel uncomfortable when I can’t think of more questions to ask the other person.</p>
<p>she wants yoo bod</p>
<p>What’s so bad about talking about yourself? Your conversations sound like an interrogation of the other person.</p>
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<p>women don’t like negative, self-pitying people, like me :)</p>
<p>Uh wow, you seem like super boring guy. I sorry you are so socially inept.</p>
<p>Perhaps he doesn’t talk about himself because there is not much to him. Dude, you need your personality revamped.</p>
<p>Oh and people in general don’t like negative, self-pitying people. Unless you have encountered a really tolerant person who might have the patience to deal with you and change your perspective. Be POSITIVE. Even if it’s not genuine.</p>
<p>And please don’t torture those of us on the internet.</p>
<p>Here this is probably sage advice to you: [How</a> to Make Friends - wikiHow](<a href=“http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends]How”>Easy Ways to Make Friends - wikiHow)</p>
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<p>That’s the truth. I am boring.</p>
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<p>I wish it were as easy as saying it.</p>
<p>Yo check this out: [How</a> to Become a More Interesting Person - wikiHow](<a href=“http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-More-Interesting-Person]How”>How to Become a More Interesting Person (with Pictures) - wikiHow)</p>
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<p>But you don’t have to talk about just negative stuff about yourself. Why not talk about your opinions about something and what you think about stuff? Is the problem that you don’t WANT to talk about yourself or that you DO want to but nobody wants to hear it?</p>
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<p>yeah i have to wrestle with that question a lot</p>
<p>its a curse . . .</p>
<p>^^Right. You don’t have to talk about yourself at all. Just talk about your favorite soccer team. Or how the coffee at Starbucks sucks, etc.</p>
<p>I actually wondered the same thing a few weeks ago (I go to a school of relatively unattractive people), but then I realized two things:
1, I’m not sculpted like a Greek God
2, she wouldn’t hang around me as much or be interested in conversation like she was if she were just in it for my body. </p>
<p>All in all, I recommend getting a personality and being social. That will make the body factor less important.</p>
<p>You’re made of cardboard, bronson.</p>