<p>^^^ Alpha Delt (the literary society) and Eclectic are also both co-ed. </p>
<p>But yeah, I agree with smartalic. The frats are just one among any number of things to do in a given weekend, and since they aren’t considered especially cool or whatnot, there’s no pressure to have anything to do with them unless you want to. And that’s from the perspective of someone who is a member of one.</p>
<p>Hi to everyone who is reading this site. Congratulations if you got into Wesleyan. Congratulations if you actually choose to go there. Our daughter chose Wesleyan for herself, turning away from a few schools ranked higher in the US news and world report. She adores it. She is so happy there. At any of the schools you mention they are basically equal. You will get a great educations at all of them. So the next question is your happiness: it’s important. Does it feel right? Is it a good fit? Are you happy on the revisit? If you are happy and content you will do well. From where I sit it’s not where you go it’s what you do at college that is the most important thing.</p>