<p>Woah this is an old thread of mine.</p>
<p>Wow. What a question? Is sex rampant in every social situation, yes. So college which does involve social opportunity does present the idea of a hook-up or sex if you will. Its your choices as a student that make these opportunities more or less frequent. For example, if you join a Greek organization - you will meet more people (those including the opposite sex) and be put in situations where the possibility may arise. More possibilities than say someone who spends most of their time in chem. lab and frequents the library til wee hours of the morning.</p>
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I think having "game" is incredibly overrated. </p>
<p>Let's get something straight, there's nothing that a guy is going to be able to say or do that is going to convince a sober, emotionally and mentally stable woman to have sex with him. I mean more often than not, a woman usually has a good sense of how far she's going to let a guy go before she does the dreaded "I'm not ready and/or willing to go that far" push off. </p>
<p>There are two situations that I feel are too often attributed to a guy's "game" (a) if you have sex with a girl that is known for being a slut, it's not "game" that got you into her pants, it's just her being a slut and (b) if you have sex with a drunk girl, it's not your "game" that got her in bed, but rather her inebriated state which led to her opening up to you.</p>
<p>The only real instance in which a guy can use his "game" for sex is when a guy is able to make the leap from close friend to friends with benefits. Now that leap can definitely be attributed to a guys game. Personally, I have yet to have the whole friends with benefits scenario cum up, so I'm not even going to pretend like I know what I'm talking about in that regard.
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<p>Wow, I'm sorry but you are incredibly wrong. You obviously haven't met a guy with game then-no offense
And what are you talking about when a guy can only use his game for sex when he is making a move on a close friend to friends with benefits?? You're close friends for a reason. If there was anything between the two, someone would've engaged something or made a move while in the friendship phase..
I'm not trying to prove or say I'm a guru when it comes to chicks, but I can def tell you right now "game" exists and you can get sober, intelligent chicks in the sheets...and not that it's happened before...;)
haha, I noticed how you spelled come in your last sentence..nice.</p>
<p>I think there's one major thing that almost everyone's forgetting here...</p>
<p>Everyone's different, and has different tastes/likes/preferences. What turns on person on is definitely going to turn off the next person. Some girls will prefer guys with "game" or "charm" or w/e the heck you want to call such antics, and some girls with hate that sh--, thus making them recoil in horror.</p>
<p>In my personal opinion, you shouldn't be worrying about sex until college is over... Unless you have a major or attend a school where the work isn't as rigorous as most (easiest example I could think of: art). Then you'd have more time on your hands to deal with that kind of stuff than somebody trying to earn a PhD or something.</p>
<p>Now get your heads back into those books and out of each other's legs! ;)</p>
<p>The bold part here makes me giggle inside. Don't know if it was done on purpose or not, but so subtle and humorous in a thread about hook-ups and sex.</p>
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. Personally, I have yet to have the whole friends with benefits scenario cum up, so I'm not even going to pretend like I know what I'm talking about in that regard.
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<p>haha, only on CC would someone bring up Ovid when talking about random hook-ups.</p>
<p>niiiice</p>