<p>Have had sex in college due to a hook-up or any other non-committal method? I want to see how common it is...</p>
<p>and also say which college you attend so i can get a better idea.</p>
<p>Wow, so are you trying to choose a college based on how much other people get to hookup there?</p>
<p>LOL nooo. I actually already have a list of colleges I plan on applying to but this is just a curiosity question.</p>
<p>that happens in EVERY college. you just got to be clean, nice, attractive, and have game.</p>
<p>I think having "game" is incredibly overrated. </p>
<p>Let's get something straight, there's nothing that a guy is going to be able to say or do that is going to convince a sober, emotionally and mentally stable woman to have sex with him. I mean more often than not, a woman usually has a good sense of how far she's going to let a guy go before she does the dreaded "I'm not ready and/or willing to go that far" push off. </p>
<p>There are two situations that I feel are too often attributed to a guy's "game" (a) if you have sex with a girl that is known for being a slut, it's not "game" that got you into her pants, it's just her being a slut and (b) if you have sex with a drunk girl, it's not your "game" that got her in bed, but rather her inebriated state which led to her opening up to you.</p>
<p>The only real instance in which a guy can use his "game" for sex is when a guy is able to make the leap from close friend to friends with benefits. Now that leap can definitely be attributed to a guys game. Personally, I have yet to have the whole friends with benefits scenario cum up, so I'm not even going to pretend like I know what I'm talking about in that regard.</p>
<p>friends with benefits would be awsome.
when i said game i didnt mean the person's ability to have sex, i meant one's ability to show oneself in the best possible way to the other person. with that said, crs im going to have to disagree with you there. </p>
<p>lets say there are two equally attractive person (exterior appearances only) and they both equally are trying to hit on you. which one would you prefer? the one who can represent themself well or the other who is stumbling and being creepy?
and if you have game, you cant force a girl to have to do anything sexual with you but you can give her the feeling of dining and wining and make her decision easier (or harder) whether or not theyre interested in you.</p>
<p>yeah crs you're misunderstanding what game is. It isn't trying to convince or persuade anyone to have sex with you. It's basically being able to attract women, using certain techniques. Some women will put out for guys who are confident and have game, but not to the timid one's that don't have enough -game- to attract them. And some people just naturally have 'game,' it isn't necessarily something that you just learn and practice.</p>
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<p>That's not completely true. But it will have nothing to do with the guy having "game" either. Guys are either charming, or not, and different girls find different things charming. Charm and good looks can go a long way, believe me, and it again has nothing to do with skills or game. It's natural.</p>
<p>but game incoporates charm. actually charm is probably what game is</p>
<p>Yes, game can incorporate charm, but I see them as two different things. You can have game and have no charm and vice versa. Or you can have both, or neither. Charm just comes naturally to people, whereas having game can take some skill. My definition of "game" involves a guy using particular talents or comments to influence someone's view of him. Charm is just something that people have whether they try to or not, they're either appealing, intriguing and charismatic, or they're not. But, like you said, a guy can use his charm as part of his game.</p>
<p>God, that sounds so yucky and scientific. Basically, what I was trying to say was, any "sober, emotionally and mentally stable woman" isn't going to jump the next guy if he's good at flirting. Surprisingly, we can often see through that. However, a naturally charming good-looking guy can bring out a completely different attitude in a girl.</p>
<p>I see game as everything from shoes, to clothes, to haircut, to face, to build, to humour, to flirting, to voice, to how you walk, and so on. It's basically a hurricane of everything and anything that could attract a woman. Which can probably be summed up as charm.</p>
<p>That's just one definition, though.</p>
<p>Happens everywhere to most everyone. You don't need "game", you just need to leave your room.</p>
<p>I think getting into an argument over what exactly game is is stupid because it's an argument over semantics. Different people have different views as to what constitutes game. I have only heard the term game used three or four times from my friends, and every instance, it was in reference to someone either hooking up or having sex with someone.</p>
<p>But back to the original question (sorry I don't know how to use quotes)</p>
<p>How many of you... </p>
<p>Have had sex in college due to a hook-up or any other non-committal method? I want to see how common it is...</p>
<p>Hook-Up-->Yup
Non-Committal (friends with benefits)-->Nope</p>
<p>I only have two friends that brought to my attention that they had a friends with benefits relationship. One told me not to do it because the girl ended up liking him and then their relationship went to pieces. The other also said it was a bad idea because he started feeling uncomfortable around her.</p>
<p>Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are many positive friends with benefits relationships, but in order for it to work out, both people probably need to be able to disassociate sex with their emotions and feelings towards the friend, which can be kinda hard if you're close to someone.</p>
<p>yes to hookups.
fwb=awsome.</p>
<p>but im looking for a gf. weird huh</p>
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<p>well put jack</p>
<p>kingofqueens, awesome name!!!</p>
<p>and crs1909, you are incredibly dumb if you think what you said is true. You don't get out much, do you?</p>
<p>Also, you have no f'n idea what "game" is... or how it works.</p>
<p>DeluxeHardballer: great name, you the man. My question to you-->So what exactly is "game" and how does it work? I bet with a super rad screen name like yours, you must have to push ladies off of you left and right.</p>
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<p>Game, noun. The art (and it is an art) of conversating a fly ass lady in such a way that you establish your value as a potential mate and receive her contact information, or perhaps touch her breasts. </p>
<p>If you honestly believe that "game" requires a girl to be a "slut" or drunk, then your understanding of human nature and the ways that human beings interact is extremely limited. There is very little that anybody can do to help you.</p>
<p>It's common and easy to do, but why would you want to? I guess some people are into that, but it's a complete turn-off for me. Commitment is a must for me. I don't find random hook-ups, casual sex, or friends with benefits appealing at all.</p>
<p>How's this for unusual: I'm waiting until marriage for sex.</p>