How to ask for recommendations?

Question -

When should I give thank-you notes and gifts? A few days after requesting? After being admitted? Should I give a gift to my counselor too? Also, what do I say when giving a gift?

Luckydogs - Iā€™m pretty sure that most schools consider computer classes to be ā€œacademic.ā€ You may want to check what Dukeā€™s specific policies are, though.

Hi, i printed out 2 comm apps teacher evaluation sheets today(in blank/white ink >.< is this okay?), and now im pretty nervous about one teacher that im thinking of giving the rec to.
okay, so my situation is ~~ i wanna give the rec to my physics teacher, who obviously know that im one of the brightest students ~i even talked to her a few times about things, calculus problems, science, etc. she knows me pretty well about my academic ability; howeverā€¦ last yr when i took her class,i kinda slacked off a lil, i was memorizing vocabs instead of doing physics labs! she got mad at me a bit,that was ā€¦in 2nd qtr last yr i think~of course, later on i picked up things and did wellā€¦ this beginning yr i talked to her about me self studying physics B and she even lent me her book. shes a very good teacher,sheā€™s nice to me toobut im worried that my fault last yr would ruin the rec ay, so what should i do? how do i fix this situation??

also, is it okay if i give another rec to a former teacher(now moved to another school) a rec?
what should i give along with the comm app rec?

Thanks!

ā€¦
anyone?

I think your rec will still be a strong one. Teachers arenā€™t evil, you can trust them!

Hi!

So I was wondering, what kind of information do you guys give to your teachers who write letters of recommendation for you? :slight_smile: Thanks! :smiley:

Is it okay to send in recommendations by filling out blank common application forms without your common application number on them? I didnā€™t know we could do that by inviting teacher on CA so I just printed out forms instead and filled my information in by hand. Is that alright?

In any school that asks for a teacher OR counselor recommendationā€¦would it be alright to ask a religion teacher?

Or when they say this do they mean an academic teacher or guidance counselor?
I really want to ask my religion teacher because she knows me best, but is it allowe?

Generally they mean an academic teacher. You can send your religion teacherā€™s recommendation as a supplement.

Do you guys think it would be inappropriate to email a rec teacher to ask a quick question about early decision vs. RD stuff (Iā€™ve already asked and given them all of the envelopes, etc. in person)?

Are you allowed to submit a supplemental recommendation?

How would you be able to tell which colleges donā€™t want supplements
and on the number they ask you for?

Am I totally screwed if forgot to tell my teacher to seal the envelope? (Recs are already send!)

Iā€™m sure itā€™s not a big deal (no one I know had the teachers seal the envelopes).

Is it better to have teachers write recommendation letters if you had them in your junior year? Itā€™s just I had two teachers from sophomore year who would be willing to write recommendation letters for me and they know pretty well.

Is it ok for a Spanish teacher to write a recommendation??
Sheā€™s one of my favorite teachers and I talk to her constanly. Sheā€™s going to have me for 2 years so sheā€™ll know me pretty well. Iā€™m going to be in Spanish V next year so itā€™s a pretty hard class.

Is that academic enough? Or should I stick with history/english/science/math teachers? I have some great teachers in those subjects as well. Iā€™m just not ā€œfriendsā€ with them like I am with my Spanish teacher.

Another question.

Is it really OK to ask end of junior year?
It wonā€™t seem like youā€™re being sort of pushy? Like youā€™re demanding that they do it over the summer? Because I know alot of teachers just want to relax over the summer and would rather not do any.

Or should I just ask at the very very beginning of senior year? We donā€™t have that big or competitive of a school. Most teachers post up their requirements if you want them to write a recommendation for you 2 weeks after school starts.

Spanish teachers are fine- foreign language is considered one of the core subjects. Besides, colleges donā€™t care who writes the recā€¦ they care what the person says.

I would wait to ask for recs until senior year. Thereā€™s no need to ask before the summerā€¦ most teachers donā€™t need more than a few weeks to write a rec letter. If youā€™re worried about the timing, ask teachers right at the start of senior year.

@fhg Thanks.

Thank you very much Savs!

OK so i did EA to 2 schools and i got a rec from my math teacher. Now i have to do RD stuff and i dont know who to ask.

Will i look silly if i ask in 2 weeks for another 4 recommendations?