Okay so my roommate left for the second semester because she was too homesick all the time and wanted to go home. However she recently decided she made a mistake and wants to come back next year. I felt the two of us personality wise got along great! We both did our own things sometimes and had our own friends but we were also really good friends too! But she moved away and now i don’t know if she still wants to room together. Like the thing I’m worried about is that she skipped classes all the time and I like briefly mentioned it to my dad about it (parents divorced…i only live with dad) and he ended up telling her dad that she was skipping too (idk why he did that). Anyways, what if she is mad at me and doesn’t wanna room together? I feel like I ratted her out cuz her mom and dad were mad she skipped. Its really stupid the whole thing…but anyways what if she thinks that I rat on her parents to everything. Idk I don’t know how to ask her if she wants to room together next year (i’ll ask through texting) and I am just really afraid she will say no… anyways please give me your thoughts and advice about how to ask or if i shouldn’t. thanks
I think you’re making a bigger deal out of this than you need to.
Text her and say “I’m trying to get my living arrangements for next year figured out. Are you interested in being room mates again, or should I look into other options?”
That’s really all you have to say.
Right. If she says no, then at least you’ll have an answer and will know to make other arrangements.