<p>why would asians stick to asians? hispanics are wayyy bangin.</p>
<p>Asian guys don't ask/date white girls cause (assume mostly traditional/<em>hesitant to use word, but fobish</em>):</p>
<ol>
<li><p>Traditional chinese culture isolates the son from all guy/girl relationships till usually university. Trad Asian guys don't talk to girls who aren't related to them very often. </p></li>
<li><p>Trad chinese family value education ALOT, espcially on the son cause of 1 child policy, and cause the son carries the "family name." Therefore, families force chinese boy to study study study with little partying and other "wild" social interaction. boy grow up without too much friendly activities, so they resort to individual hobbies. ie anime/gaming/computers/tech stuff.</p></li>
<li><p>from point 2, asian boy becomes very introverted, and only makes friend with other asian boys. when they get together, they either talk about school or nerdy/techy stuff. </p></li>
<li><p>From point 1, asian boy talk to asians almost exclusively due to their traditional social clique (ie grades/school) and don't deal too much with anyone else. (see point 2). so white people look stranger, especially white girls (point 1 X2).</p></li>
<li><p>chinese boy don't relate to white girls. Chinese boy don't get white girl even if society and the media has drilled in him the "blue-eyed blonde beauty" view. </p></li>
</ol>
<p>This speaking from observations and partial personal experience.</p>
<p>D*** it, there are plenty of asian guys out there that absolutely love the white girls. Nearly all my asian guy friends dig 'em and so do the asian girls. </p>
<p>And yes, hispanics are hot. My friends envisions a cross between hispanic and italian for ethnicity becuase of the pretty eyes, nice body, and overall attractiveness. I dunno, asian guys do make fun of those people dumber than them, but then so do smart white kids.</p>
<p>the big irony about traditional, family enforced asian education, is that sure the kid gets great marks in bio and physics and math, but they end up lacking the social skills to get great EC's. which keep them out of the elite colleges in the end. </p>
<p>not to mention, low social skills = terrible career in anything but med and engineering.</p>
<p>ivypoison, how many people do you know like that? does that describe urself? i doubt you know more than a few people that are as nerd as that</p>
<p>and yes, as nerd as that, not as fob or as azn as that. what u describe is not normal among azn</p>
<p>Yeah IvyPoison, I can't find one version of the sterotype you named. I go to a school of 40% Asians.</p>
<p>Hahahah, PWNED</p>
<p>my school- 3400 kids from 9-12 grade</p>
<p>5 asian males and 3 asian females.
3% blacks
10% hispanics
Rest are all whites.</p>
<p>my school consists of people from over 74 different countries.</p>
<p>congratulations</p>
<p>I am an asian guy.</p>
<p>my school is 20% asian, and although i do occasionally encounter the type of asian Ivypoison has mentioned, they hardly represent the majority of asian males.</p>
<p>his analysis is mostly incorrect, but he does get points for mentioning culture.</p>
<p>asian families emphasize family alot more than white families do (i cant say anything about other minority family traditions), so they stay at home or engage in family activites much more than whites do.</p>
<p>As a result, their social skills aren't quite as honed as whites are (big generalization there) and often don't have the confidence to approach white girls.</p>
<p>at least thats true for me.
=D</p>
<p>"family activites" != nerds, studying, cooped up</p>
<p>alright time to give ivypoison a break</p>
<p>for me, family activities are dinners out, day trips, going to sister's soccer games, etc.</p>
<p>I am surprised by the OP's description. All the asians at my school try awfully hard to be white, and a few of them are outrightly ashamed to be Asian and whenever they go to the cities or meet new immigrant students, they'd always snigger at them "fobs" (fresh off the boat-ers). Most of them don't know how to speak their native languages. The impression they gave is that it's horridly embarassing to be Asian, period. There is no such thing as "Asian pride".</p>
<p>I am a Asian guy from Hong Kong, and yes, I am extremely fob because I just arrived here for half a year. But I don't think I am catagorized to the group of SUPER FOB as said in a few previous pages.
I speak not that fluent English, but my other abilities of English are great. Like I can have high As in English.
I don't have any preference to the race. I mean the only important thing is the feeling to the girl. If I feel she matches me, then I will go for it. However, unfortunately I'm way too shy and I will not speak to white girls unless they start the conversation first.
I think most of the Asians, at least Chinese, are like me that they are too shy.</p>
<p>extremely fob w/ english like that?</p>
<p>purrli aint u chinese? i feel sory for u that u have to be around all those losers</p>
<p>yeah I am Chinese (a "Fobolous", according to the chart in previous pages). When I first came to America I was naturally inclined to be friends with the other Asians because of language issues (my school has 4% asian population), but after a while I found out what they were really like. The sad thing is that the original "fobs" (immigrants) were the most vicious because they were treated like this too when they first came. Now whenever I see Asian exchange students and immigrants I'm happy to help them get acquaitainted because I know how tough it can be to fit in (though I'm not one of those azn-pride-let's-hug type). Being rejected by another race is awkward (though all of my friends are white and I love them), but being mocked by your own feels like betrayal.</p>
<p>"Another question: How big a role do your parents play in who you date/eventually will marry as far as race will concern?</p>
<p>A lot of people who are asian have told me that their parents forbid them to date white people, especially to their male children. I've also noticed that there are far more asian girl/white guy couples than white girl/asian guy couples. Why is it not the same for females?</p>
<p>If your parents do not want/forbid you to date or marry a non-asian girl ... will you listen to them? Would they disown you if they did? Would you/do you/will you marry or date a non-asian girl anyway?"</p>
<p>Took me a while to get my parents used to American culture. Had to be able to talk to them about things in school, MTV, etc. The entire girlfriend thing went along with that. As long as these parents are comfortable with american culture, inter-racial dating should be fine. I'll agree, they'd prefer an asian couple. However, just try to meet the parents and get them comfortable with you.</p>
<p>Just my thoughts</p>
<p>Some of you guys will like this.</p>
<p>Hahaha, I watched the whole 15 minute video ..
I agree with this comment:
"and the black guy omg the funniest part lmao"
that was the best part, completely wasn't expected</p>
<p>The guys shouldn't over-analyze things though, just take things lightly .. go wit da flow . . thats why you see all the black brothers with the most hoes</p>
<p>jk, but i mean, they get action at an early age, no joke .. biggest p i m p s .. and honestly, how many black "nerds" do you see?</p>