<p>Just be nice to them, but don’t be too nice. Like be informal/friendly, otherwise it will make them feel uncomfortable. Like this girl who keeps saying thank you after everything I do.</p>
<p>First of all, I know I’m seven years late to the party.</p>
<p>As an asian guy, I think there are social stigmas against dating other races. I have Chinese friends who won’t date non-asians because of the culture difference or the need to earn their parents’ respect. One of those friends will only date Chinese people because of the shared language. This stigma appears most frequently in my Chinese and Korean friends, where the Laotians and Filipinos seem more open-minded. Personally, I’m not really attracted to white girls on a physical level, but I look really chinky and I always thought that was a turn-off for white women so I never asked any out. I’m surprised the OP is/was interested in asian guys because we look for approval in our own races first.</p>
<p>Ni hao kai lan.</p>
<p>I don’t know what you guys are going to say. Although I’m an Asian, I’m not going to ask any Asian girl out in 2-3 years. Girl in this race is not my type. :(</p>
<p>In my experience, if you’re white and you want to date Asian, go with the Vietnamese. At least at my school, the Vietnamese people all think they’re black. The Koreans are also worth a shot, but they usually stay with Koreans. And Chinese (in my experience) don’t do much dating, more like platonic Asian hordes. As a half-Chinese, half-American, Asians are a really tight click (all Asian people have families connected in some way or another). Asians spend a lot of time outside of school with each other and it’s really hard to break into an Asian group unless you’re ridiculously smart, or in band or orchestra. Asians don’t care if you’re friends with them, they’re really great to talk to, but becoming close friends or dating one is a different story. Unless you’re in the aforementioned band or orchestra. But that’s just my school and my experience :)</p>
<p>Asian guys like to date white girls. The problem is the asians’ parents.</p>
<p>^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^</p>
<p>I’m Middle Eastern, but that’s technically Asian.</p>
<p>Just go with it.
But remember, there are some Asians you’ll find intimidating. They will underestimate you without knowing a slight thing. And will make comments that give a terrible moment. not all of them but 15-20%.</p>
<p>Lol none of this applies to my school. Everyone acts the same. We don’t really fit any racial stereotypes, and people don’t date based on race. :)</p>