<p>What I don’t like about your list is that it makes the whole recruiting process look very passive in terms of what the player has to do.</p>
<p>In some sports, it is true that coaches do a lot of reaching out.</p>
<p>In other sports, like soccer, the player has to do most of the reaching out, especially to out-of-area coaches. If you are known to the local college or university, then that coach may get in touch with you, but if you are out-of-area, you need to contact the coach first. Yes, there are a very elite few who all the coaches know about, and go after, but for the vast majority of players, even those that will be offered scholarships, go to Ivys etc., the player himself has to start the process with the specific schools he is intersted in. </p>
<p>There may be times when a player gets noticed by coaches at specific events that a player did not contact, but most players don’t leave it up to chance that a coach at a program they are interested in would ‘find’ them at a national event and watch them play.</p>
<p>My son started the whole process with the school he eventually committed to, with emails, requests to come see games, updates about his academic and athletic progress, etc. There was an exchange of emails over several months. It was not like he was noticed by the coach at some event and then the coach started contacting him. The coaches did make it a point to see him play at the national events he attended after he sent them a schedule etc. And they did ask him to make an unofficial visit. But he never got any media guide mailings, text messages, phone calls, (only after he commited, and only a maybe 1 or 2 so far), no scholarship offer (but a special application to let admissions know he was a recruit). They did contact his club coach (who was an assistant coach for a local U). As for camps, almost all coaches asked him to come to their summer camp, without even seeing him play at all, because camps are where coaches make money–the more kids, the more money. If he turned out to be a good player they wanted, all the better. So being asked to attend camp is not that good a sign that a coach noticed you or wants you. </p>
<p>It was a great deal of work for my son to get coaches interested. Your list makes it seem like the player simply waits for contact and mailings, and that if you don’t hear from a school, it means that a school doesn’t want you and you won’t be playing there. That is not true for all sports.</p>