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She may also have to understand that she may not get everything that she wants. She is going to have to prioritize what is most important to her.
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I agree. She hasn't found a single school that has <em>all</em> the attributes she wants, so now she has to decide where she's willing to compromise.</p>
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If she has her own instrument, and they do not, that would be a plus. If it is a competitive school and they have no harpists, she has a real advantage.
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Yes, she has her own harp, and she has competitive credentials on the academic side as well. </p>
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One school does not have an oboe teacher on their faculty BUT if DD matriculates there, they will hire someone to give her lessons.
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One school has told dd they're interested in starting a harp program and would get a teacher for her. They've even named the harp teacher and listed her credentials. We don't know whether this would be good or bad.</p>
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Does your daughter favor either the Salzedo or Grandjany method?
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I guess she's open to either method. Her current teacher is Salzedo (studied with Lucile Lawrence). This teacher doesn't reject the Grandjany method, though -- she just says it's different and would require some adjustment. One college on dd's list is definitely Grandjany -- the teacher studied with Marcel Grandjany himself. DD met with this teacher about a year ago and they seemed to hit it off well, although they didn't do a trial lesson. She listened to a recording of the Grandjany teacher and immediately wanted to learn several of the pieces. The recording struck me as softer and more romantic than the bold Salzedo style, but that may have been simply the choice of songs and the individual performer's style.</p>
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She didn't apply to Oberlin, because she wasn't interested in what she considered a "conservatory" setting. Although she is very talented, she would have probably been a small fish in their pond.
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My dd fears that in the large music programs she might not get enough performance opportunities, since an orchestra typically will use only one or two harps. She likes the idea of being the only harpist on campus, or one of just a handful, so that she can get <em>all</em> the performance opportunities. I tell her that the schools with several harp students must be attracting those students for a reason, and perhaps it's because those schools provide a strong education in harp performance. </p>
<p>At most of the schools on her current list, she would be one of just two or three harpists, or perhaps even the only one. One school that ranks very high on her list, though, has a larger harp program with maybe a dozen students. It undoubtedly has the best music reputation of all the schools she's considering, and she loves the teacher.</p>
<p>Oberlin isn't on her list, either. She would much prefer a politically and socially conservative atmosphere, and our understanding of Oberlin (though we haven't visited) is that it's on the opposite end of that spectrum.</p>
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If she has a good teacher then half the battle is won, but because her instrument is harp, if she is unhappy with the teacher, she'll have to change schools in order to change teachers.
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Someone on these forums recommended choosing the teacher first, and choosing someone you'd be willing to follow if that teacher decided to change schools. I mentioned this concept to dd, and she immediately chose her current teacher, with whom she has a wonderful relationship. DD was ready to forget about all other applications and apply to only the two schools where this teacher is on staff -- one a reach/match and the other a safety. We had sudden visions of a much more relaxed senior year with only two auditions to schedule, only two campus visits to make, only two application deadlines to meet. The idea of only two applications seems risky, but it might work in this case since one of the two is truly a safety -- an in-state public where she can get a full-ride scholarship based on her academics.</p>
<p>Then she got a recruiting phone call last night from one of the other schools on her list, and she began remembering the reasons she liked that school as well.</p>
<p>She has met briefly with the harp teachers at two or three of her potential schools. I understand how a trial lesson can <em>rule out</em> a teacher that the student immediately dislikes, but it doesn't seem reasonable for a student to decide that this teacher is <em>the one,</em> the teacher she's willing to follow for the next several years, based on a meeting of an hour or two. How can these brief encounters compare with the relationship she's built up with her current teacher over several years?</p>