<p>Our country's immigration policy raises so many conundrums (conundra?)</p>
<p>Almost two decades ago, I was looking for someone to provide part-time in-home daycare to my then infant daughter. (My husband and I both worked primarily out of our homes at the time, and we needed someone to help out so we could get our work done and make it all happen.) </p>
<p>I interviewed a number of promising candidates, mostly students at nearby colleges, where I had listed the job in the student job offices.</p>
<p>One of the women who applied was not herself a student--she was the wife of an international grad student. She was legally in the country, but her visa (as the dependent of an international student) did not permit her to work here.</p>
<p>It was, in many ways, a heart-breaking situation. She and her husband were from China, and the Chinese government had forced them to leave their infant son behind, in order to ensure that they would return after the student finished his studies. </p>
<p>Their infant son was the same age as my own daughter, and the woman was looking for a job caring for a child that age, to heal the loss she was feeling. (Under the one-child policy, of course, their son would be the only child they would be allowed to have.)</p>
<p>The government, in essence, had forced her to choose between staying with her husband or staying with her child, and she would be missing a year of her son's childhood.</p>
<p>She was a lovely person and seemed very kind and caring.</p>
<p>In the end, I didn't have to agonize over the ethics of a hiring decision--she didn't particularly "connect" with my infant daughter (as other candidates had). And the language barrier also gave me some concerns about safety--I was afraid that we might not be able to clearly communicate instructions because we didn't know any Chinese and her English was quite limited.</p>
<p>So, in the end, I ended up hiring perfectly legal American-born students, but I've often thought what a shame it was that our country's immigration policies did not allow this woman to find a legal and fairly compensated way to offer her much-needed services in some appropriate setting. I could imagine settings--like a day care center or perhaps a Chinese-speaking family in need of childcare help or perhaps a family who wanted ther children to learn Chinese--in which she could have made wonderful contributions.</p>