<p>The people who work in the FA office – or any of the administrative offices – couldn’t be nicer or more helpful, so I don’t know what the story is with what your mom is saying, but the person who called Grinnell “unwelcoming” is totally off-base.</p>
<p>My S tried the spreadsheet approach: it didn’t work. On paper, Grinnell would have lost – because of its location (not rural setting, but getting there; he hates to fly!), but he felt that he had met “his kind of people.” That was the same exact phrase I heard another mother say to me at Orientation as to why her son had picked Grinnell over an Ivy and another “more selective” school… (she was a little green in the face as she said this…) </p>
<p>I think that at any school, one will get a great education, find a group of friends and get involved in extracurricular activities, but at some you feel more like you fit in a niche, and at others, you can have an overall sense of belonging. </p>
<p>I think that’s what your decision comes down to: whether you want to make it more about the tangibles of place or the intangibles of personal fit. </p>
<p>In my opinion, this is the one time in your life when you will live in a self-contained world with a group of your peers – you have the rest of your life to find the landscapes in which you want to settle. </p>
<p>That having been said, Grinnell is what it is partly because of its location: the students who go to Grinnell really want to be there! They aren’t in it for the prestige back home, that’s for sure! We always say our son goes to school in Iowa at Grinnell, because if we don’t preface it with the location, people always hear “Cornell” instead…</p>
<p>In addition to the “preppier” nature of Hamilton, it has a huge East Coast focus in the student body, unlike Mac, Grinnell and Reed which are much more balanced in their geographical draw. Check out the differences in where the freshman classes come from on this website: </p>
<p>[Where</a> Does Your Freshman Class Come From? - Facts & Figures - The Chronicle of Higher Education](<a href=“http://chronicle.com/article/Where-Does-Your-Freshman-Class/129547/#id=191515]Where”>http://chronicle.com/article/Where-Does-Your-Freshman-Class/129547/#id=191515)</p>