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Unfortunately, most “nerdy” girls are not, which is why I originally assumed you weren’t interested in “nerds”.</p>
<p>All I know is that if I were attracted to a girl and she didn’t make it extremely clear that she was not interested, even telling me she had a boyfriend wouldn’t turn me off to gaming her. Your boyfriend isn’t even available to fend this guy off. </p>
<p>I can’t speak for all men, but I think you are misinterpreting this chemistry bloke’s intentions. Most college-aged guys don’t want to “make friends” with girls. The majority want to bang them, a minority wants to start a LTR with them. If he’s being especially friendly to you (ie he’s nicer to you than other girls) then he is priming you up for one of the two. Get on board or distance yourself from him or I fear the temptation will be too great.</p>
<p>I don’t really know how he acts with other girls because my chem class has very few girls in it. For all I know he could be giving his number out or hanging out with a bunch of other girls in his classes. </p>
<p>He just moved here from another part of the state so he is definitely trying to make friends.</p>
<p>My boyfriend doesn’t have to fend another guy off at all. He’s still friends with his exes on fb. Do I freak out about it? No.</p>
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<p>You don’t know, which is why you made this thread.</p>
<p>Well I just read threw every page of this thread which has gotten way out of hand. The OP never once asked if she should get with this other guy lol she wanted advice on how to stay friends with him. Now let me ask, OP do you still need advice or have you solved this problem?</p>
<p>I don’t understand why people say she’s unfaithful because she’s attracted to another guy. Its a natural reaction. It happens and can’t be controlled. She’s physically attracted to him, but not mentally. Any person that says they’re only ever attracted to the person they’re currently dating is lying. People focused in on one or two points and took this thread way off its intended course.</p>
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<p>As an external spectator to a thread that spiraled out of control,</p>
<p>I rest my case.</p>
<p>What I don’t understand is why you even think he is interested in you? Nothing you said has demonstrated the faintest of interest, as far as I am concerned. And it is not like it is impossible for a male to want to be just friends with a female.</p>
<p>Thanks Marco, I do still need advice. No one seems to know how to answer the question and apparently because I do find someone else attractive I am a cheater and liar.</p>
<p>I don’t know for sure, I just have an inkling. Everyday before class I will be standing in the hallway and he somehow finds me out of everyone in the crowd. He asked me what I liked to do on the weekends and he’s always asking me if I’m going to the review sessions or not. And he did give me his number so I could text him if I was going to the one review session earlier this week.</p>
<p>^You mean he talks to someone he knows rather than a crowd of unfamiliar faces, wants to know the most basic things about you, and wants to study for chemistry? How provocative.</p>
<p>I know right? He’s obviously seducing me. lol.</p>