<p>for a second there I though that the OP was a lesbian LOL. but then I realized that he's a guy. Um..yeah the title is weird.</p>
<p>plus, I personally don't think that it is love. I think that it could be better described as infatuation..not affection. You like her and you are taken by her but you do not have feelings for her. IMO.</p>
<p>Yes, love is wonderful...until it ends. Ahh, the joys of high school relationships...</p>
<p>(Just the local cynic wandering through...:P)</p>
<p>I'll take the chocolate!</p>
<p>mmmmmm chocolate. <em>homer-like drool</em></p>
<p>WHat a disgusting thread by the way.........dude you sound like a chick...I would still love to hear about how you guys broke up and why you now hate her( thinking in future tense.)</p>
<p>i predict a break up as well :)</p>
<p>You people make me sick.</p>
<p>Be happy for him.</p>
<p>fine.</p>
<p>enjoy it...while it lasts.</p>
<p>one interesting fact:</p>
<p>our relationship is interracial. I'm Black, and she's from South America (Brazil).
At the risk of scrutiny, I believe this - enhances - the relationship, rather than detracts from it. In a homogenous relationship, you'd know what to expect. If I dated a Black girl, I'd already know what to expect, from mannerisms to culture...but the fact that I'm Black and she's Brazilian(Non-Black) makes the whole thing oh-so-sweeter. Her mom dates a black guy too...</p>
<p>this relationship will hurt my chances of being Val or Sal this year, DEFINITELY:D
she keeps serious tabs on me.</p>
<p>But, I just love it when she touches me (nothing nasty). Her touch is sooo soft and sensual...I feel like i'm on a cocaine high lol...</p>
<p>I am only the first. you all will be next.</p>
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what's weird is that we've known each other for about 5-6 months, and contact basically consisted of us chatting at work sometimes.</p>
<p>But it seems like since the school year started, she really started flirting hard. That was strange to me, but I went with the flow. I guess I've liked her for a while. Now she's introduced me to her sis and showed me pics of her family and all that, and she's really let me into who she is behind school/work, which is really unusual 'cause she's not really the type to do that. And she insists that she hold my arm in the halls/public places...hmmm..</p>
<p>i'm no good at recognizing a relationship, but i suspect chemistry in this one
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<p>If that's it, I'm pretty sure you aren't in love. That's called a crush, and for many first-timers it can seem like love. Of course, I might be wrong.</p>
<p>she's my baby...lol</p>
<p>I've like my bf for over a year now, and I'm not in love with him...you're not in love with this girl either.</p>
<p>how do u know? what gives you the right to tell him that he is or isnt in love. just becuase you're not in love with your bf, automatically means that he's not in love with this girl? you just flat out say "you're not in love with this girl either". lol obsurd.</p>
<p>You'll go nuts. It'll end soon, Othello.</p>
<p>Don't lose your focus because of lust.</p>
<p>You've got a future ahead of you.</p>
<p>High school relationship < successful and happy life.</p>
<p>Yeah, focusing on school first before a relationship is a lot more important. Seriously. Take it from someone that's been there.</p>
<p>its is suprising that everyone so quickly jumped that it was a male poster who loved a girl....wow</p>
<p>it could have easily have been a girl....it does happen you know</p>
<p>i think we all thought the OP was a girl but then realized that he was actually a guy.. not the other way around.</p>
<p>I'm just saying that teens overestimate their infatuation.</p>
<p>^ which was exaclty my point. the guy is infatuated by her and that's all there is too it.</p>
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I was responding to him.</p>