<p>Soooo…whats up with this, Keil? I mean you posted 2,600 times on CC and seem involved in the minutiae of college admissions, rankings, selectivity etc. Its all just a jumble of statistics and nonsense in the end. CC members aren’t going to college for you. You are going, you are making that selection and you will be living with your choice. You run the risk of over analyzing and getting way too granular on your choices. Its really just a gut feel.</p>
<p>If you visit 20 schools you will only become confused and then make a selection based on prestige,ranking or “selectivity ratings.” Bad move. </p>
<p>You should make your selections based on factors you and your family decide, which may include weather, geographical location, travel expenses for four years and that “fit” feeling…which is often just a gut reaction after you have made a visit to a college.</p>
<p>If you try and discern is Carleton better than Whitman or Swarthmore or Bates or name a school on your list of 20, its a fool’s errand. People have to cut schools off their list and get down to 10-12, and be focusing on those applications, making PRELIMINARY choices and preferences in their heads…leaving open the possibility that the reach school either may not take them or they would be a poor fit if they got in there. </p>
<p>Its about what you bring to the school and what impact you will have on the school and what the school will do for you: helping you grow and mature and contribute to society as a whole.</p>
<p>Put another way, is a graduate of Swarthmore or Williams or Carleton better than someone who went to Whitman? Of course not. They are only “better” if they are better people from within, not because of the name on their diploma. </p>
<p>Its not easy self selecting and cutting names off of your list. Millions of students are doing that right now and even more millions have already started applying and have completed their visits. You will be the same basic person no matter where you end up. Part of you will change and mature and that happens no matter where you are in school. </p>
<p>Its not about “how many acceptance letters can I collect.” (Many asians my kids know are way too obsessed with prestige and ranking. Why is that?) We all want you to be happy and successful, and beyond that, we simply don’t care that much…</p>
<p>When people ask about my oldest (now a Junior in College), I know instinctively they want the general response…not the detailed minutiae…or perhaps a humorous remark about dorm drama. That is all. If I bored them to tears with the details of every professor, every statistic and every little this or that event…you see where this is going.</p>
<p>Its time for you to make your decisions, as hard as that may be. Yes, its subjective and somewhat capricious. And then you apply and then you wait and see what happens. And move on. </p>
<p>If I was your friend in the real world (instead of just a CC comment), I would wish you the best, but it wouldnt make a difference to me if you were at Rutgers or Delaware or Williams. </p>
<p>Best of luck to you…but I think its time to work on your applications and worry less about the “selectivity” of this or that school.</p>