<p>WW, I’m sure you realized that the concept of “level” is subjective, so it will never be possible for any program to place every student at what is mutually agreed to be an appropriate level. This is true of any instrument, but will be more of an issue on a very competitive instrument for which there are few prime spots. </p>
<p>I hear your frustration and anger about the amount of money and time spent on your daughter’s summer program. Sometimes, though, the best lessons are not the ones you paid for or were expecting. You and your daughter are experiencing what may turn out to be a microcosm of the musical world of her future. Every one of us on this board has either experienced or witnessed situations in which a student’s capabilities were recognized by one institution and not another. The reasons can be myriad (as outlined by others below); nothing is guaranteed. One needs to learn how to survive with grace in a situation where one feels frustrated and under-appreciated.</p>
<p>I’ve found that it helps to approach camp situations with humble expectations-- more often than not you will be pleasantly surprised rather than disappointed. Even if your daughter ends the program feeling that she has not progressed musically, the time spent there will have provided her with some kind of growth experience.</p>
<p>It sounds as if your daughter had positive experiences at other camps, so (to state the obvious) it would probably make sense for her to return to those programs in the future and not go back to the program she found so disappointing. Meanwhile, although I hear your concerns about her playing watered-down student arrangements rather than challenging music, it’s also probably a good opportunity to help her realize that there are benefits to working on music that is not at the threshold of your current technical ability. In the strings world, every high school quartet wants to play Bartok, Shostakovitch, and Ravel, and students often feel insulted when assigned a quartet by Haydn or Mozart because the latter are not difficulty technically. But as kids mature they come to appreciate that it takes much greater skill and maturity to play the more transparent classical pieces with style and musicality. </p>
<p>About the game Assassin: this is a very popular group game, sort of in the same category as Capture the Flag. All four of my kids have played it at camps, school retreats, slumber parties, etc.</p>