<p>Why do people belive that interracial dating is wrong?</p>
<p>idk... i'm asian and all the girls i've ever dated have been white. well, part of the reason is b/c the asian girls i've ever run into were either stupid or slutty or both.</p>
<p>personally, i wouldn't think twice if i saw an asian guy and a black girl, vice versa, or any combination of races, i think it's perfectly fine.</p>
<p>plus, i think half asians in general are better looking than full asians =)</p>
<p>I asked a girl out one time and she said no.I later found out from a friend of ours that said it was because I was black.All I want to know is whats the big deal</p>
<p>well, i guess it's because some ppl have brought up their kids to think racially. either that or the person him/herself is racist. i've run into the same thing just because i'm asian. there really is no big deal i think, it's just a shame that some ppl have to think like that.</p>
<p>then again, not everyone believes that interracial dating is wrong. one of my ex gfs (she's white) has been more inclined to date interracially ever since we broke up.</p>
<p>One who does not believe in interracial dating is not a racist. Usually its the males who see the females of their race dating other races that gets pist off the most. (i.e. White girl dating black guy, Asian girl dating White guy) I personally just get mad when a hot chick isn't dating me and is with some loser scumbag who beats the crap out of her, no matter if he is Hispanic, Asian, or black.</p>
<p>or white right?</p>
<p>I don't think there's anything "wrong" with it. Interracial relationships can and do work. I think sometimes the differences in culture can cause problems, but that's really more of an individual than a racial thing. It can be purely socioeconomic, too. For instance, I doubt I could be compatible with some blue blood who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. As much as I might try, the respect would be slow-coming because he did little to earn his status. Yes, that's a personal prejudice I carry. I do think that in some areas of the country - mine included - the children of interracial couples can have trouble gaining social acceptance - especially mixed African American and white.</p>
<p>As a general rule, people are most likely to date someone who has similar features to them/equal attractiveness/similar speaking style, etc. Before anyone decides to be offended, let me point out that I'm a mutt. </p>
<p>Dad: 6'6 White
Mom: 4'11 Asian </p>
<p>...laugh if you must</p>
<p>My stepfather is white, my mom is asian</p>
<p>WORKED OUT!</p>
<p>TO OP:</p>
<p>I'm sorry such racist mother****** mercilessly rejected you, I would slap her for you.........
Is she white? Asian? Hispanic? </p>
<p>anyway DAMN HER</p>
<p>If a girl doesn't date outside of her race she should not be slapped, that is just her personal preference. I personally could not date someone who believed in murdering of babies or was a Steelers fan.</p>
<p>I never understood why people were opposed to interracial dating either. Personally, I am attracted to all colors, but I am not a huge fan of black skin, not so much brown. I don't think that's racist, however, because I don't like pale people either. </p>
<p>The only thing I have always wondered about is interreligion dating. It just seems weird to me.</p>
<p>The evangelical Christian college Bob Jones University (ironically abbreviated BJU) doesn't allow interracial dating. I guess it's stipulated somewhere in the Bible--why would they just make it up? (oh, wait...)</p>
<p>Why do you guys have to make such a big deal of everything? If a girl rejects you, it's because she isn't attracted to you. The truth is that the majority of people don't even notice interracial dating(except maybe in the south). It's all personal preference</p>
<p>Usually white people are usually compatible with all races, but not all races are like that</p>
<p>I don't think it's true at all that most people don't notice. In fact, I think it's just the opposite. </p>
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<blockquote> <p>Usually white people are usually compatible with all races, but not all races are like that<<</p> </blockquote>
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<p>That's only because our society has, until very very recently, valued whiteness almost exclusively as the ideal to which we should all strive for and be attracted to. It's a totally artificial, f%cked up compatibility--if it can even be called that.</p>
<p>Did anyone see that article in Newsweek ~3 months ago, about how in movies, black guys often fall for mexican (latina? mexican-american?) girls? It came out after that Hitch movie. They quoted Will Smith as saying that he has begun to stipulate that his (black) character must fall in love with a black girl, and that he personally doubts any white actors have to stipulate that their love interest also be white.</p>
<p>I think that interracial dating is awesome, from every point of view. My sister really thinks it's strange, though. She's not racist, I think it just unsettles her. Like, some girls REALLY can't handle a guy with long, long hair, or some guys can't handle a girl six inches taller than themselves. So not everyone against it is racist.</p>
<p>I want food I am in the South I guess I should be use to it but it has never happened before I'm not making a big deal out of it I was just asking you all what you think about the matter.</p>
<p>Didn't you put this in highschool? Well, I'll say the same things.</p>
<p>People who don't date other races or don't want to do not have to be racist. For adults, its because they want to keep their race pure or culture in tact. For younger people, it seems that they just are not attracted to you. As in AZNGIRLB is not attracted to WHITEBOYS. Or its "uncool". </p>
<p>Yes, people do get mad. Black girls get mad when a black boy dates a white girl and vice versa. Or you get made fun of for dating a white person. Excuse me, if you're black and you hang out with a lot of black people, you mostlikely WILL get made fun of for dating a white person. Usually by someone of your own gender.</p>
<p>ctrain, it's not because the people are racist. Maybe compatibility is the wrong word, but what I am trying is say is that some racial groups don't find others attractive. It's just like you saying all guys who are straight are against same-sex marriage. </p>
<p>Not everything is subconscious just like not everybody is out to get you. IT IS ALL A MATTER OF PREFERENCE</p>
<p>sorry but no one has ever made fun of me because I dated someone outside of my race.</p>