Irreligious person at BYU?

<p>I’m a junior in high school.</p>

<p>So BYU looks like an excellent school, with an awesome academic program, no drug scene, and a friendly student body as well as low tuition. I’m all for this, but the thing is I’m not any religion, and although I’m very interested in all religions and their customs, I’m afraid I might get overwhelmed by the LDS community. I’m interested in diversity, and the main reason I’m look at BYU is the language program. Ethnic and national diversity is something I’d want, but I read that most of the student body are friendly, but most white, conservative and Christian. Now as long as they’re nice I have no problem with conservative Christians, but being a very liberal atheist, after four years I might end up growing tired of it. Do you think it’s worth going for the language and the tuition, or are there other schools I should look into?</p>

<p>BYU has a lot of ethnic diversity due to its many international students. Its language diversity is due to the fact that a large percentage of its students learned another language while serving as missionaries, either in the US or (more likely) abroad. In addition to this diversity, the school and a large percentage of its students are culturally diverse. Indeed, most returned missionaries I’ve met who served outside of the US place more value on their multicultural skills than their multilingual ones. </p>

<p>Mormons are nice people, but you’ll fine nice people everywhere. </p>

<p>BYU has very little religious diversity and most BYU students are active Mormons who are dedicated to their religion. The language diversity you find on campus is rooted in a religious experience (missionary work). Also, returned missionaries are very accustomed to defending their beliefs. Like any other homogenous environment, you will get what you give at BYU. If you walk around campus with a chip on your shoulder, challenging the beliefs of others, they will be very happy and able to share and defend their beliefs. That’s what missionaries do. If you are more low-key with your beliefs, then no one will say anything to you. They may try to convert you, but they would not be hostile to you. Once you’ve explained that you’re not interested, they would stop (Mormons, I have found, are very different from evangelicals; they feel a responsibility to share their beliefs, but they won’t judge or ostrasize you if you’re not interested, and they would have no problem becoming your friend and including you in their inner circle).</p>

<p>So the answer to your question really turns on what type of personality you have. If you see the college experience as a time to challenge the status quo and to make your mark, then you could find BYU stifling. If you see college as a change to learn and experience new things, then you may like BYU. </p>

<p>I am a Mormon who attends a college where liberal atheists (or at least liberals who look down on religion) seem to be the majority. If I mind my own business, religion is never a topic of debate. If I voice my beliefs, people get defensive and I feel that they even look down on me. My guess is that your experience at BYU would be similar. </p>

<p>If you live close to Provo, you should spend a long weekend there mingling with students. If you don’t live close, find the local Mormon institute program in your city and attend one of its functions. Mormons are pretty much the same throughout the country. </p>

<p>Whatever you choose, I hope things work out for you.</p>

<p>As a fellow really liberal person, I don’t think you’d fit in at all. You might want to look at their honor code: [2010</a> - 2011 Undergraduate Catalog | Church Educational System Honor Code](<a href=“http://saas.byu.edu/catalog/2010-2011ucat/GeneralInfo/HonorCode.php#HCOfficeInvovement]2010”>http://saas.byu.edu/catalog/2010-2011ucat/GeneralInfo/HonorCode.php#HCOfficeInvovement)
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<p>It definitely is a good education for a good price, but I reaaally don’t think it’s worth it for this environment. Also, it’s 88% white and really doesn’t give off the vibe that it’s filled with lots of different religious beliefs and ethnicities if that’s what you’re looking for.</p>

<p>laff, on a few occasions where BYU students voice their opinion about atheism, they are baffled how a person can not have religion and still be “good” person. I’ve gotten a range of responses from no response to the denial of any legitimate morals without religion. </p>

<p>If I was going through the college application process again, I would have chosen a school that fit me better. I think a part of me will always regret coming to BYU. I’m not saying that BYU students are completely one way. There is a certain level of diversity but diversity and open mindedness isn’t exactly a free flowing commodity here.</p>