<p>I would choose the flagship. Regardless of where you go, you will need the determination, connections, and attitude to become wealthy. It does not matter there you go to school. Your first job may pay you like 100k at the big school. But you will also have a lot of debt. If you go to the state school and are really diligent and show that you are a bright apple, you could reach any height you want. </p>
<p>I am in the same boat, however for engineering. I am at a top tier engineering school but will be opting out at the end of this semester to go to my state school. I just see that I will have better connections and a better mindset back home which will help me reach my life goals. </p>
<p>You are definitely at a cross-roads and you are very lucky to at least have the moral support of your folks. If you feel that this is the best decision it will always haunt you if you don’t do it. Just keep looking foward!</p>