<p>Joe,</p>
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It seems as though what is superfluous in affluent circles is extremely lacking in the my community. FOR CHRIST SAKE I AM ABOUT TO BE THE 3RD PERSON IN MY FAMILY TO GRADUATE, AND 1ST TO THINK ABOUT COLLEGE. I had a few experiences in my junior year that changed me and made me do well. But sincerely, what ivy league or top school is gonna accept a kid from BALTIMORE CITY COMMUNITY COLLEGE!!! I dont have enough money to get out and sadly the fact that colleges are looking at me in almost the same light as a student whose mother went to Stanford, and Dad to Yale,who had the opportunity to go to schools that honed their skills while mine stayed rough is apalling. I am mad, sad, and thoroughly scared that I may become part of a system that is cliched "THE RICH GET RICHER AND THE POOR GET POORER"
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<p>this is a bit woe is me or if it makes you feel better you can switch to no body knows the trouble I've seen but it nets out to the same thing and at the end of the day you are still going to have to play the cards you are dealt.</p>
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No offense Sybbie but you are speaking from the other side of the spectrum
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<p>But I am also in the postition to say been there, done that as I have not always been on the "other side" (I was a first generation college student as my parents grew up in the rural south and were not allowed to attend school as they were still segregated) . </p>
<p>My story is also not all of that unique because many other people have also done it. Now it is up to you to decide if you want to be part of that number that makes it to the other side. Should I also add that I worked full time to put myself through college and attended graduate school as a single parent with a young child in tow? </p>
<p>In my non-CC life, I work with developing college programs and opportunties for adults in addition to coaching and counseling kids (I am also a licensed GC) on the college process many who would consider themselves living the good life if they lived in a 2 parent home making 60,000 year as these student (also black) have parents who are dead, in jail, live on public assistance but still feel that they want to break cycles. Any story you put forth I can most likely top and give you and example of someone who has done better.</p>
<p>What you have to keep in mind that even the journey of a 1000 miles begins with the first step. Right now the reality is that you are not in a position to attend an ivy league school. It does not mean that it is not possible.</p>
<p>You will have to turn things around and the only way to do this is to put your high school record behind you as right now the best predictor of future behavior is relative past behavior and the reason why grades trump scores (although they are still important) in the admissions process. This is not going to happen until you have 2 years of college behind you (which is why it would not be in your best interest to apply as a first year transfer). </p>
<p>If your heart is set on upon having an ivy name on your degree, do the 2 years at community college, do well and at worse case you could apply to the school of general studies at Columbia, Harvard's extension school, the general studies program at Penn. Other schools to consider are Georgetown's school of continuing studies, and Woods College of Advancing Studies at Boston College, and the Paul Mcghee school at NYU.</p>
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Why say he is "going to" go to BCCC if he still has an outstanding application to Howard? Why only mention Howard in the second post? If Howard isn't a sure thing, why didn't he apply elsewhere?
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<p>While he may have the scores and grades to be admitted to howard, he does not have the grades + scores to get any kind of merit money from the school. for example if he had a 3.25 instead of a with 2.3 gpa, this combination he would have been eligible for a capstone scholarship that would have covered tuition, room and fees. </p>
<p>Howard as a school is notorious for not giving really good financial aid, so had he decided to attend, he would have had a lot of loans.</p>