<p>I think there is an overemphasis in this discussion on prestige for prestige sake. Some of this is born out of cultural prejudice (often an Asian family's preoccupation, as is pointed out by the OP) and almost always out of insecurity, (i.e. self-worth unhealthily tied up in whether ones goes to HYP, etc.). There is often too much attributed to what "prestige" can actually deliver, that is to say, it is way overrated in terms of tangible outcomes.</p>
<p>Many of the distinctions being made in this discusssion, and throughout much of CC (higher Ivy/lower Ivy and the like) are what Freud referred to as the "narcissism of small differences." One can get an Ivy League quality education (and often much better than at places like Harvard and MIT) at many schools in the US. </p>
<p>Prestige-seeking, in and of itself, and what is often associated with prestige-seeking, risk-aversion, unwilling to challenge the status quo, an extreme concern with making the grade, etc. is actually an enemy to a real education (from the Latin e(x) ducere, to lead out of one self). </p>
<p>For argument sake here, let's say there are 35 colleges and universities (including LACs) in the US that can provide an Ivy League quality education. This is what I believe to be a rule of thumb to be competitive (not necessarily a surety at any one) at all of them:</p>
<p>2100+ on SATs with a pretty even distribution across M, CR and Writing.
700+ on each of two SATIIs
A very high GPA in a rigorous academic program </p>
<p>Consistency over time and demonstrated excellence in an EC or two
Accomplishment/Talent in a Performing Art and/or in a Sport
Natural leadership skills emerging from the ECs above</p>
<p>Passion and Drive (demonstrated by perservance amidst difficulties in academics/ECs)</p>
<p>Evidence (through rec's, essays, etc.) of HARD WORK</p>
<p>I think it's a rather straightforward formula:</p>
<p>Academic Accomplishment + Talent + Passion + Hard Work</p>
<p>I think if you can ring the bell loudly on all four elements of the equation then you have an excellent chance of getting into one of the countries top schools. </p>
<p>Academic accomplishments alone, irrespective of how high one's SAT scores, will most often not suffice.</p>