<p>Ive always gotten great advice from the parents here over the years, so I thought Id post again though under a new name. Sorry in advance for the length. What advice would you give your ~ 30 yr old S/D or to your 30 yr old self if this were you (in this new economy)? Especially interested in law/business parents out there.</p>
<p>I was Penn undergrad (finance) and then went to a T-14 law school; basically I have the academic resume that most here covet with name schools, honors etc. Went straight through school so no work experience before law other than minor college internships. Went from law school to NYC biglaw where I did well for a lot of years until my department (commercial litigation) imploded and now I basically have a few months left to get out before Im left with a resume gap. Problem is I have been looking for a year and nothing.</p>
<p>Im not excluding any options -- another firm, in-house, or government. I have gotten a decent number of interviews but cant seal the deal anywhere. I have become the queen of making it to the top 2 and then getting the sorry -- we loved you, but there was someone else [with 20 yrs more experience; an internal candidate etc.]. If we had 2 spots, wed take you. I am not getting the sense that its an interviewing problem; I have clicked with almost everyone and certain rejections have come with personal calls/emails stating the above, not just form letters.</p>
<p>I am freaking out at this point and just starting to give up. The mental strain of running around, networking, finding things to apply for, apply and doing interviews -- sometimes up to 5-6 rounds before a rejection -- while still trying to do my work for a firm that has told me to go is getting to me and I cant take anymore. But the clock is also ticking.</p>
<p>Litigators dont transition into business as directly as corporate attys do so the options are more limited. Thing is -- firms just arent interested in me because they have their own senior associates that theyre trying to push out bc the economic problems are rampant throughout the industry and they dont want to make new partners; as for smaller firms -- I dont know if I want to go to Smith & Jones -- the work will be less interesting (to me), what if I dont make partner there, and what if I want to move cities -- I cant seem to land a job from a top national firm, how will it work from a no name firm? And I dont want to stay in NYC and would rather be in another (smaller) northeastern city; I have been trying there (and also NYC) and its been impossible.</p>
<p>Part of me is thinking -- was litigation just a bad choice and should I get out into the business world while Im still young. If yes, how? Is anyone going to care that I went to Wharton about a million yrs ago? How do I sell that?</p>
<p>I had always said if I wasnt going to be a partner at a big firm, I wanted to be on the business operations side but now that just seems like a dumb thing I said as a kid, as I look at postings and frankly, I havent done financial analysis for the last 4-10 yrs like my peers. Who would give me a chance and where do I look?</p>
<p>All I know is I cant spend my life feeling this uncertainty and having an unmarketable skill set. At least in business, I feel like there are lots more managerial jobs -- that dont require making partner/managing director/sharing profit etc. I feel like I will always be thought of as a good worker bee in law but no one will ever want me to be a partner in their firm -- which means, Ill have no stability unless I can land in gov't, which is proving to be impossible given the sheer number of attys in DC and sequester issues.</p>
<p>My own parents have been great about this and tell me that in this new economy people shift careers all the time, but I dont know about leaving behind law (to go compete with the millions of MBAs, when I don't have one) and would like some outside opinions. WWYD? (Sorry for how long and anxiety ridden this is.)</p>