<p>nurseypoo-
seems like my post may have hit a nerve- my apology if it did...</p>
<p>Please know that I DO know how you feel....BTDT....twice over!
Waiting is tough....completely understand feeling "helpless"... and it can drive you nuts if you let it. But like you said, you have done all you can....</p>
<p>So what I tried to offer where things that, in my own circumstance, helped to get through that waiting time- </p>
<p>Your candidate is not alone in "wanting this for years"....most, not all, but most, have....sealions' son has been onboard since 8th grade!
chances are your son is like most other candidates that make it through this far in the process...accomplished....steller even....and perhaps not used to failure, although most of these kids have experienced that in some form or another as well-and unfortunatly, while one out of 10 stellar kids will make it in, the other 9 will not....personally, I wish there was enough seats for all of them!</p>
<p>so what i am trying to say is that to fret and watch the mailbox every day (while we all have done it) is time better spent doing something else- IMHO....</p>
<p>I know our second year of waiting was aweful- and our waiting time was from January of the previous year....so 16 months of waiting......and we knew going in we would be waiting until April 6th to hear if the seat "waiting for him" would be his "for sure".......talk about holding your breath- so concentrating on other things, staying focused on what was at hand, playing up the "plan B"....just in case....were important to us and, should it have gone that way, I hope would have been helpful to our Mid.</p>
<p>Then again, you know your kid best and how he will cope- and hopefully it will be great news and he will be off and running come June.... but then again, lots of great kids get turned away.... and then what? Especially if this has been their "dream" since they were 13!!!</p>
<p>And if you think having people ask frequently is tough, try having coaches from other programs calling each and every sunday to "check on their decision" and have to tread on that minefield- like I said, it can drive you nuts.</p>
<p>So, with the sincerest of intent, do try and find something to help pass the time while you play the waiting game- it will help to make that time go faster. Keep in mind the USNA is the slowest of the academies to send out their decisions, so that waiting time may be longer than you think. You never know.</p>
<p>Best of luck, and an apology if you found my comment hurtful in any way!</p>