<p>Before my ridiculous story, I have to say that if you can afford laundry service get it and if you can’t then don’t. My son did his own at BS and it didn’t kill him but it sometimes got in the way of having fun for a couple hours on a Sunday, and sometimes broke his concentration as he worked on a paper when he needed to go switch and fold. So much growing up goes on at BS, laundry is a minor consideration as far as learning responsibility goes. Then again, for some, it can actually be more challenging to remember to put out your laundry bag on the right day then to do it yourself. </p>
<p>OK…here’s my crazy (long) laptop story…</p>
<p>One Friday night, my son was in the main building and realized he was going to be late for check-in so he rushed back to his dorm. Once in his room, he realized he’d left his laptop behind. The Proctor said he couldn’t go back to get it and on Saturday morning, it was gone. He notified his Dean and his advisor and he checked in at Lost and Found and Security…nothing. He went to his classes and borrowed a friend’s computer to send an e-mail asking if anyone had seen it but realized his e-mail password expired because he kept putting off making the required change. He couldn’t get through to tech support because it was the weekend. </p>
<p>On Sunday, it was suggested that he check out a laptop from the library to get his work done and see if it turned up the next day. We talked to his dean and told them that perhaps we would activate the Lojack on the laptop if it wasn’t found by the next day. He told us to be sure to tell him if we decided to do that. By Sunday night, he hadn’t heard back from anyone at tech support so while he studied, I attempted to reach anyone at the school’s tech support to fix the password situation. </p>
<p>On Monday morning he got a new password from a very PO’d tech guy who acted like my 7:00pm message had been late at night. I also got an e-mail wanting to know who had given me his phone #. Really? What’s the big deal? And why the heck isn’t someone on call to pick up messages once a day from kids who have a problem over the weekend? So…now he’s got a password but still no computer. After sports and dinner, he tried to check out a laptop again. Nope…all checked out. He called me a little frazzled and I reminded him that he could work at the library, he just needed to get permission to leave during study hours. So, he did but he’d wasted a good bit of study time running around. </p>
<p>Hundreds of miles away we were fretting over the situation. It had been 72 hours and still, no laptop so we called the Lojack people to figure out how it worked. Evidently, if anyone had logged onto the internet from his laptop, they would have been able to track it by the IP address but probably only to a building…not a specific dorm room. Still, we figured it was worth tracking, especially because we had no idea if it had been taken off site. The Lojack people said they needed a police report # to turn it on so, reluctantly, I called. The cops were not particularly interested until I said we had Lojack at which point they got a little excited. I asked if we could just open a report for the number but not send anyone to talk to my son until the next day, I just wanted to activate the Lojack and see if we got a hit…and let him do his homework. They said they would have to check it out that night if they gave me a report # so I asked that they not go to the school until the end of study hours so I could alert the dorm parent and Dean that they would be coming. I imagined a quiet scenario where my son went over to the Dean’s wing and gave them basic info for their report…no big deal. </p>
<p>Wrong. I barely had time to notify folks that they were coming before they arrived, went to my son’s dorm room and banged on the door with their flashlight scaring the crap out of his roommate. The dorm-parent sent the roommate to run to the library to get my son, who had no idea any of this was happening. In the mean time, he had finally logged into e-mail and found a message from his math teacher who had come across the laptop, thought it might be my son’s based on a less than common first name on the screen, and hung onto it for safe keeping. My son, of course, sighed in relief and kept working, knowing that he could get it from his Math teacher the next morning…until his roommate appeared telling him to hurry back to the dorm 'cuz the cops were there to ask him questions! He went back and explained that his Math teacher had it and all was well but they wouldn’t leave until the teacher brought the laptop back and handed it to him. They lectured everyone and left.</p>
<p>Tuesday morning, the Dean called my son in and gave him a hard time for not reporting that it had been found in the 15 minute block of time between his receipt of the e-mail and the arrival of the cops. I guess it was ok that the Math teacher never said a word to anyone other than an e-mail to one kid who may or may not have owned the laptop. He also never turned it in to Security or Lost and Found. Maybe it’s because he was pretty sure he knew who it belonged to but my son had class with him on Monday and he never said a word. Absent-minded? Perhaps, but I’m still struggling a little bit with that one.</p>
<p>So, other than having it confirmed that our son is a knucklehead, here’s what “we” learned…
- Never, ever, ever let your password expire.
- Go over the proctor’s head or ignore them if it it’s important or expensive.
- Ask about Tech Support availability during evenings and weekends when kids are studying and run into issues. Hope they are nice.
- Do not think there will always be someone there to help your child with a difficult situation. To some degree, they are on their own. People listened and made some suggestions but, at fourteen, he needed a little more help with the situation.
- Realize that your child may not always be treated nicely or with sympathy when they make mistakes, or when things are just going wrong all around them.
- Consider Lojack for your laptop.
- Never underestimate the desire of the cops to break up a big-time laptop smuggling ring operation at a hoity-toity prep school using the latest in Lojack technology! I’m joking here…well, kinda
- Realize that in the end, his laptop wasn’t stolen and he felt pretty safe leaving it in another building unattended. On the other hand, he did have flip-flops and school sweatshirts disapper, and sometimes kids borrowed equipment and were less than responsible about returning it. I hear Ipods are fair game…but that’s another thread.</p>