Thanks for the thoughtful and informative response, Gnarwail. You raise good points.
I guess we should closely compare the Hopkins curriculum with our local high school’s. I’d be interested in your and other forum members’ advice as to how to gauge the quality of the academics. That’s the million-dollar, and elusive, question for everybody, with all schools, I suppose.
I’m also curious as to why you feel Hopkins isn’t the academic powerhouse people like to say it is.
We thought of Hopkins because of its national ranking on lists like Forbes’, and we figured it must be good if all those Yale profs send their kids there. It also has a reputation in our area for excellent academics – but you never know what opinions are based on.
My husband and I have both attended elite schools, but we’ll have to consider whether having a somewhat different attitude from the parents you describe would matter, and how much. [This would probably be true at any private school.] Also, how much it would matter to our son not to live in the same place as most of his classmates.
Right now, we are thinking Hopkins or our public high school. I guess we fall into the category of local-ish families who won’t consider boarding school. Our son wouldn’t want to board, and I wouldn’t want him to deal with the day/boarding tension you mentioned, so that eliminates all the BSs plus the day options at Choate/RH and Taft. Hamden Hall, which I haven’t heard about, is exactly the same distance from us as Hopkins, according to Googlemaps. (Also, Hopkins has a bus from our area, which lessens the commuting burden, for us at least, if not for our son.) Day schools that are closer to where we live really put the prep in prep school (jacket and tie required) and emphasize athletics heavily, neither of which interest us or our son.
You’re right that financial aid remains a concern with Hopkins.