<p>I'm a journalist looking for anecdotes on students being sexiled - your roommate asks you to get lost for a while, so the roommate can get intimate with someone else. I'm really interested in whether colleges even have policies to address this. I mean, is it OK to ask your roommate to get lost? The colleges I've asked say they've never directly addressed it. Tufts made waves a few years ago with a policy saying you can't have sex with your roommate in the room, but that's not quite the same thing. Also just wondering how prevalent all this is. Please feel free to contact me directly.</p>