<p>im in college now, ive never had a real friend that i could go out with out of school, and i was curious...when i take a new class i always find a lot of friends that i talk to and joke with in class and even during break time we go to the same place...but how am i supposed to get past that? i dont know how im supposed to make a good friend(s) to go out with...its killing me to go to the movies alone!</p>
<p>Try to do group activities. Suggest to several classmates during break that you should get together for a movie, ice cream, or bowling, etc. It is easier and takes the pressure off if several people are going. Close friendships evolve from groups of friends.</p>
<p>The best thing here is just to be a leader. Don't wait for anyone else to make plans. Make them yourself.</p>
<p>do you think its possible to have a good amount of friends after youve almost never had a close friend since high school?</p>
<p>i look at my brother (older) and i hang out with him and his bros and mostly its like 5 of them that really hang but he has much more friends that he can go to clubs with and hes not really getting new friends from what i know and i dont want to think im stuck...but then i hear these storys how people go to ucla and obviously if they live their the only one from their city they meet new people and go to bars with people....look at real world, 5 guys become really close i wish i can have that opportunity...the only thing i feel is that its coming i can feel it i just have to find that right class.</p>
<p>If you're that desperate for companionship, what you need is a gf.</p>
<p>the gf will give more than companionship!</p>
<p>:D</p>
<p>they'll also want other stuff too like your money and time</p>
<p>You don't need to give them your money.</p>
<p>Making friends isn't that hard, even after you've had none. Up until this summer, I really never went out with friends. But someone invited me to a party, and while I was there, I got to know a few people from my school that I knew before, but I just didn't talk to them much before. Now I go out with them multiple times per week. That all happened in just a couple of months. Making friends isn't as hard as it seems while you're sitting at your desk.</p>
<p>If you've got friends willing to spend free time with you at school, then you've got friends willing to spend time after school.</p>
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<p>Not really. People like to start drama by randomly excluding people. That's more of a high school thing, but people bring their old habits with them to college.</p>