<p>Yes, I think you make some good points. I guess my only beef is the holding a place in line and the “life is unfair, deal with it” suggestion. I think the call as to whether the parent should be there or not depends on the kid and situation. And I can see how it might be interesting to the parents if they’re not familiar with this new world which needs “brave” kids. So good points all. Also as you know I have a pretty determined kid who is particularly determined to get rid of that sound of a helicopter blades that’s been humming overhead for the duration of childhood. And I do try to honor that but om’goodness it’s hard some times I know, so I am in sympathy with all parents, really we’re all trying to do our best aren’t we.</p>