Hello! This is a repost with some different details
My top three are Reed, Middlebury, and Carleton. (@ future students like me who see this, don’t worry so much!) I was pretty in love with Reed (accepted EA) but now that the others are in the picture, I’m leaning towards Midd but looking for some feedback.
About me/Context
-Female/ mixed (AA/EA) but from a suburb of Minneapolis so I’m fairly used to lack of diversity. Also bisexual.
-I would like to bio major(I genuinely love biology) and have some sort of minor (possibly classics) while following a pre-med track
-My cost will be around the same for all three schools. Carleton is 3,000 cheaper (1,000 of that is due to lack of travel).
-I love languages! Nearly fluent in French, okayish at Spanish, and am working on German
-Avid ceramic artist and nature/wildlife photographer
-Gluten Free and Pescetarian (since birth)
Reed
Pros
I really loved the campus (only one I got to visit), the weather, the two classes I visited were great, there’s a nearby Trader Joe’s, my friends would be quirky professor types, very queer, I wouldn’t have to worry as much about GPA (a huge source of anxiety during HS) and I vibed with the vibe (most important thing about Reed).
Cons
Lots of drugs (and weird drugs) and as someone who’s pretty susceptible to peer pressure/family history of addiction, that’s not great (my host did say she never felt pressured to use though). Reed has a certain attached reputation (smart but druggie) that I’m not thrilled about. Not a great rep for med schools (despite what they try to convey). I would be unlikely to study abroad due to the Junior qualifying exam and Senior thesis. Few to no parties (even though I’m not really the party type). I think I might leave Reed with extremely liberal (think buzzfeed) views. Not necessarily a negative, just not what I really want.
Carleton
Pros: really great school, has a “name” in Minnesota. Fits well with my personality and the vibe is very much in between Midd and Reed. Quirky but not too quirky. About 3,000 cheaper than the other two.
Cons: is within driving distance of my family. My father is abusive and very controlling (he would show up on campus if he thought it was necessary), so unless there is an extremely compelling reason to attend Carleton, I need to go to a farther school.
Middlebury
Pros
Language- as a language lover, Midd is THE place to be (at least for LACs). Campus is supposedly gorgeous w/ a lot of study spots. As a lover of French, the proximity to Montreal is a plus. My brother is a senior at a college near Boston so I could possibly visit him during breaks/if he decides to live there. Middlebury seems to do a really great job of preparing students for med school. I would likely study abroad. Great science facilities. I know most schools have kind people but MiddKids have a super nice vibe. I also like all the entrepreneurial opportunities.
Cons
No one around me has heard of it (a minor annoyance). I’ve never really been a part of the prep school crowd/ people who wear vineyard vines and I’m a bit worried about that. All three schools are very “white” but Midd specifically has very few domestic students of color (90% of my current friends are white so I’m more worried about this in classroom settings). There also is a hookup culture which isn’t really my scene and not a lot of gay girls (but wow are the guys fine). I’m not a huge fan of snow and cold even though I am quite used to it.
I can’t drive and won’t be likely to get a car anytime soon, so I’ll be stuck around campus. I’m kinda worried about getting bored and not feeling like I can escape. The campus is also fairly spread out.
I’m pretty set on Midd, but I wanted to get some last minute opinions. I am also waitlisted at Grinnell (the AO really liked me, I just forgot an essay) but I may be forced to go there by my parents if I get off the waitlist and the aid is great. Reed was the only one I was able to visit (thanks Covid!). I know when I was applying I read every single “Reed vs” thread so even if the info isn’t relevant to me it might help someone in the future. I’m just trying to collect some more info (anything you know about Midd or Reed or Carleton would be helpful) before my final choice!