Mom getting divorce. Gap year probable

To answer your question about getting a congressional nomination for any of the service academies , it’s extremely hard. More slective than the Ivies and the process is long. Fitness is a big component. Do you want to serve in the US military ? It’s a huge commitment . If you wouldn’t choose to attend a service academy if you had to pay, then you shouldn’t apply to a service academy. They also have very strict requirements for medical history and certain conditions eliminate you from consideration .